any ideas on to how to "encourage" my wife into giving me a blowjob,she simply hates it and i only get the odd blowjob when shes drunk,ITS SO FRUSTRATING,please help,pm's most welcome
any ideas on to how to "encourage" my wife into giving me a blowjob,she simply hates it and i only get the odd blowjob when shes drunk,ITS SO FRUSTRATING,please help,pm's most welcome
Why not try the 69 position next time you go down on her, she may not suck your dick initially but with a little encouragement she may start, at first she might not be able to give you a proper blowjob but in time you could get her to go ontop so she can.
Are you clean? You may think you are but it's always a good idea to freshen yourself up before sex even with your wife, she can think you stink the same way an escort can. A lot of ladies don't like sucking dick thats after been inside them so how is your timing, are you pulling him out then expecting her to suck on him? These are just things to consider, maybe you are doing all the above already but at the end of the day if she doesn't like it other than gentle persuasion there's feck all you can do about it, the getting huffy with her approach is never going to work on a woman..
Get a naughty movie and pretend or ask her to play role play !
Ow add some POP cOCK HAHA AND A FEW BOTTLE OF bUBBLES X
"Having sex is like playing bridge. If you don't have a good partner, you'd better have a good hand.
I have PM you to give you my suggestions.
As you state she (simply hates it).
I fear if you persist with this you will end up with no sex life.
You will end up knocking her confidence and sex will become a turn off for her .
Concentrate on how to improve what you have , introduce sex toys and see where this brings you , and in time who knows what might become of it...
doc
Last edited by dr love; 07-06-11 at 14:16.
Never mistake kindness for weakness .: doc
i'd say if she 'simply hates it' then it wouldn't have magically been different before they were married.
If she doesn't like it, she doesn't like it. Don't pressure her. Tell her in a nice way how much you like it, and make sure you make her cum before expecting any pleasure yourself, then she'll feel important to you.
Don't give up on having sex with her at all though. there are plenty of way to enjoy each otehr without her feeling inadequate cos she doesn't like it.
I would give the sex toys a go. The fleshlight or tenga flip hole are a couple of the best male toys out there. I'm sure you wife may use these toys on you in preference to giving you a BJ. You also have the option of solo fun when the mood takes and you don't have the loot to visit a professional
jer10 (11-06-11)