No to owo?

[UKHeather]

Same thing surely?


CG

Yes, same thing. My apologies. An error on my part to use the two different words. It doesn't read well. Prostitute is what I meant. I am not one for gilding the lily

[UKHeather]

Yes, but an awful lot less would-- I for one ! My guess is that the biggest game changer outside the www of course, is the GFE experience. Sales must have gone thru the roof !

I know a lady who has been on the game for most of her adult life. She has told me how things have changed greatly and how, over the years, men (clients) have become more demanding, prostitutes have become more competitive, resulting in them offering sexual acts which they are not normally comfortable with, nor would they take part in, in their private life.
For instance, I used to offer Domination, I was damned good at it too..I did it because there was a market for it. It definitely is not something I have a personal interest in. I do not get turned on by it nor do I pretend to understand it.
Nowadays I don't put myself under pressure to offer or agree to anything which I do not like.

[ksteve]

I know a lady who has been on the game for most of her adult life. She has told me how things have changed greatly and how, over the years, men (clients) have become more demanding, prostitutes have become more competitive, resulting in them offering sexual acts which they are not normally comfortable with, nor would they take part in, in their private life.
For instance, I used to offer Domination, I was damned good at it too..I did it because there was a market for it. It definitely is not something I have a personal interest in. I do not get turned on by it nor do I pretend to understand it.
Nowadays I don't put myself under pressure to offer or agree to anything which I do not like.

Excellent post.

The last thing I would be interested in is being with someone who is uncomfortable with me or doing something which makes the lady uncomfortable. Sounds somewhat sycophantic but it is true. The difficulty is knowing if there is a problem or not. Services are so wide ranging now,many have become the norm. I hear that years ago french kissing was a no-no.I dont think it could be classed as an unusual or extreme service, so when I see it now listed as a favourite, I take it that the lady will be comfortable with it ( subject to hygiene etc) and I think I am entitled to assume this, am I not ?

[beendare]

Heather mentioned how things have changed, this is how i see it..............

Early 90`s - french kissing may be available

Late 90`s - owo may be available

Early 00`s - a & cim may be available

Late 00`s - all services available

Early 10`s - bareback available(it is not unknown for an escort to ask if you want covered or not....ffs)

I am fully aware it is not the case with all escorts but i feel services are a little like the banks, the banks at first condemned 100% mortgages and then see what happened

[UKHeather]

Excellent post.

The last thing I would be interested in is being with someone who is uncomfortable with me or doing something which makes the lady uncomfortable. Sounds somewhat sycophantic but it is true. The difficulty is knowing if there is a problem or not. Services are so wide ranging now,many have become the norm. I hear that years ago french kissing was a no-no.I dont think it could be classed as an unusual or extreme service, so when I see it now listed as a favourite, I take it that the lady will be comfortable with it ( subject to hygiene etc) and I think I am entitled to assume this, am I not ?

If it's listed as a favourite I'd say it would be reasonable of you to expect it to be available. Always check on the phone though.

There are a few times when I have just been not able to face kissing because of poor dental hygiene (theirs not mine lol) and I have made every excuse in the book such as, I have just had dental treatment, I have a mouth ulcer etc

I do not list my favourites as I don't want to feel pressured. If someone asks me on the phone if I offer A, for instance, If I feel like doing it that day I will agree to it at my discretion. If I don't, I will say, No.. Some things are permanently off limits though.