There have been a number of threads like this lately. I have kept quiet on previous threads but feel this is getting out of hand. Banning OWO is simply being ridiculous!! There is a common misconception that seeing escorts and escorting is “safe”. There is no such thing as safe sex!! There is spectrum of safety but it is never completely safe. This goes for anyone who has sex with multiple partners, not just with escorts.
Certainly the risk associated with OWO is greater than with covered oral. But it would be misinformation to suggest that it is anywhere near to what the risk is associated with unprotected intercourse.
To start banning certain practices that go on in the privacy of a bedroom between and escort and a client is policing this to a whole new level. We might as well be like Sweden and just ban escorting all together.
It’s very simple – if you don’t want OWO – cover up. You have no right to stop other clients from getting the service or from escorts giving it. And if you want to take it to its logical conclusion than you shouldn’t do French kissing either.
There is also huge ignorance among some clients and getting a ‘scare’ is the first time their eyes are opened to fact that maybe they should be a little more educated on the subject of STI’s.
There are only two STI’s that really count – HIV and Hep B. The main modes of sexual transmission for both is unprotected sexual intercourse (vaginal or anal). While there is a possible risk of transmission by other unprotected sexual practices, it is small. There is a vaccine for Hep B – so one can get vaccinated quite easily to prevent transmission (and should do if you’re involved in this activity).
As for the others – chalmydiae, gonnorhoea, syphilis, Herpes simplex (genital herpes) – there is actually treatment for all conditions. Clearly there are implications if you have a partner. But again this is your decision to see escorts. (I am single).
Bottom line – seeing escorts or sleeping with multiple partners is dangerous. If you are involved in this then it’s up to the individual to decide on the level of precautions one takes (not for a community/ website/ or state to impose on individuals).
I made a calculated educated decision long before I ever got into this. My only option for sex is with escorts. For me FK and OWO are essential. In addition I get checked three monthly regardless of symptoms, have been vaccinated for Hep B.
I honestly think this is getting out of hand and if the OP’s suggestion is implemented, eventually this will be little more than an expensive lap dancing site.
I have no intention of simply fighting with other posters and believe everyone is entitled to one’s own opinion. But what the OP is suggesting is encroaching on my rights (and in fact the only reason I see escorts)
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