skywalker85 (06-06-11)
The problem is we all have emotions, so it's natural to feel something for someone we often visit and are close to.
It's not always about sex, it shouldn't be, but rather a connection perceived or otherwise that we experience with that someone.
I have read a number of posts to the op that provides solid advice.
However to be honest, if placed in a similar situation would I take this advice? Probably not.
If I was the op, I would know that little could come from the situation, but that would not stop me from enjoying the time and being in the company of someone I cared for. In this instance I believe he does.
It's perhaps how a person deals with the situation, that defines him.
If our actions where to cause discomfort, distress, or problems for another, then it would be best to end it promptly.
However if we are mature in our outlook in life and in particular our situation, then the arrangement could proceed slowly.
We may not know what life has in store for us, so if we experience a period, even a brief one in that we care for another, then I say we should grasp the opportunity and enjoy this brief time.
Life can be short, so we should not squander the opportunity that it may bring us on these rare occasions.
Morpheus (06-06-11), Rodney69 (06-06-11), skywalker85 (06-06-11), smurf (06-06-11)
Well First of all, what’s half price?.. half price or double time? The guy didn’t mention the word ‘Love’ did he?. If the word ‘Love’ is not involved drive on buddy, your getting a good run… but if we are getting lovey dovey…yikes…
I had a sitch last year. Met a girl, immediate attraction. Started seeing her regularly. One night was offered an overnight, off the clock. Soon I was literally living with her two nights a week for some months last summer. No monies changed hands, but ‘gifts’ were frequent. Discussions were had to see if this was truly a mutual arrangement and assurances were given. The word ‘Love’ was used. I can remember when I was staying for the two days, multiple texts were received asking ‘when are you coming home, hurry home baby’ etc…
Then…….. after madam returned from a months holiday, it was agreed to return to client/escort relationship. Hmmm…... If I was a single guy this would have destroyed me, but as I am married it was not as bad and somewhat expected to happen some day. I have asked how could she all of a sudden stop from 10 texts a day to nothing… never got a satisfactory answer. Still visit her today and enjoy a lovely lengthy visit but, for the price of an hour… Was I being used while she settled into the biz here?… tse… course I was… But hey….. twas fcukin great fun being used if this is the case…lol
Now, we don’t know this guy Smurf, and we don’t know this girl, so who can tell either what to do.. If Dolly is right, maybe she may want this to continue into a beautiful relationship. But my gut tells me that if this guy is starting to get little butterflies in his tum tum….beware…
So my humble advice is drive on and enjoy while it’s on offer, BUT…. BUT… BUT… Beware….lol.