In a situation ?? What do ye think ?

[UKHeather]

Just Shows then mayb its not a good idea for evryone to visit escorts, well not to get too attached to the same girl mixing friendship for love R.I.P Smurf

It can get very ugly when it happens too!

[Sam Spade]

The problem is we all have emotions, so it's natural to feel something for someone we often visit and are close to.
It's not always about sex, it shouldn't be, but rather a connection perceived or otherwise that we experience with that someone.

I have read a number of posts to the op that provides solid advice.
However to be honest, if placed in a similar situation would I take this advice? Probably not.

If I was the op, I would know that little could come from the situation, but that would not stop me from enjoying the time and being in the company of someone I cared for. In this instance I believe he does.
It's perhaps how a person deals with the situation, that defines him.
If our actions where to cause discomfort, distress, or problems for another, then it would be best to end it promptly.
However if we are mature in our outlook in life and in particular our situation, then the arrangement could proceed slowly.

We may not know what life has in store for us, so if we experience a period, even a brief one in that we care for another, then I say we should grasp the opportunity and enjoy this brief time.
Life can be short, so we should not squander the opportunity that it may bring us on these rare occasions.

[Notatwork]

happy to throw my penny,s worth in , happened me about year & half ago beautiful filly from argentina cost me about 15 k traveled the world with her on my last holiday to mexico 10 days sun sand sex, lots of sex , paid nothing taught i was great , had sent money over to her on lots of times before i travelled taught i,d giving enough without even seeing her when i got home got the message sorry can,t do this anymore broke my bleedin heart , i taught we were past the money thing we ( I ) was in love she was in love ok but with the dollars €€€€€ , now don,t get me wrong i enjoyed the time,s we spent together but i was going to the next level ( def com 5 ) moving to argentina for 6 months of the year ( h,min tax reasons aswell ) but it was a house of cards or she was a very good juggler with my heart / balls / cock / mind and then it was over ......... so getting back to the story if your getting it now at half price ( u lucky bastard ) in these hard times count yourself lucky i,m paying full wack don,t let her pull ur heart strings , if you fall in love ( like me a sap ) hold ur balls in one hand & keep ur eye on ur wallet don,t fall into the she loves me too trap , i,l give her anything she wants, take it slow oooh ps whats this one,s name giving it away for half price give her my number lol hope i put abit of fun into ur story keep reviewing lads we need all the help we can get Scankman

Scank.. so much respect for you man.....you are the man...and i am sorry you got burned....i know you really loved that girl.....
I hope but doubt it wont happen to me too......just going to enjoy the times......respect pal..

[JAMESCORK]

Well First of all, what’s half price?.. half price or double time? The guy didn’t mention the word ‘Love’ did he?. If the word ‘Love’ is not involved drive on buddy, your getting a good run… but if we are getting lovey dovey…yikes…

I had a sitch last year. Met a girl, immediate attraction. Started seeing her regularly. One night was offered an overnight, off the clock. Soon I was literally living with her two nights a week for some months last summer. No monies changed hands, but ‘gifts’ were frequent. Discussions were had to see if this was truly a mutual arrangement and assurances were given. The word ‘Love’ was used. I can remember when I was staying for the two days, multiple texts were received asking ‘when are you coming home, hurry home baby’ etc…

Then…….. after madam returned from a months holiday, it was agreed to return to client/escort relationship. Hmmm…... If I was a single guy this would have destroyed me, but as I am married it was not as bad and somewhat expected to happen some day. I have asked how could she all of a sudden stop from 10 texts a day to nothing… never got a satisfactory answer. Still visit her today and enjoy a lovely lengthy visit but, for the price of an hour… Was I being used while she settled into the biz here?… tse… course I was… But hey….. twas fcukin great fun being used if this is the case…lol

Now, we don’t know this guy Smurf, and we don’t know this girl, so who can tell either what to do.. If Dolly is right, maybe she may want this to continue into a beautiful relationship. But my gut tells me that if this guy is starting to get little butterflies in his tum tum….beware…

So my humble advice is drive on and enjoy while it’s on offer, BUT…. BUT… BUT… Beware….lol.

[Ray]

What ever happened to Smurf? does anyone know?

Hey smurf, sounds like your are getting attached and she is doing her job, in my opinion if it was me, i would cut to the chase and ask her what she really wants or where is it going between both of you,, then you know where you stand, better to get hurt now then 6 months down the raod, also how long before she moves on, just my opinion, you have to do whats right for you, you can be dam sure she is doing whats right for her, hope this helps in some way, best of luck