God Lucy - that's terrible. We haven't met, but from your photos I'd never call you fat. I think people just have very unrealistic expectations of body image these days. Personally, I like someone to look 'normal'. a too extreme figure - silicone etc - just doesn't look natural.
What was the new statistics - 25% of Ireland is obese (or something like that). If people have a problem with fat people, they have a problem with a lot of their neighbours.
Don't let it get you down... :-)
Retired from punting, yet still here?
But I'd rather be the one who loves than to be loved and never even know.