Watching the clock

[ksteve]

Ok, here goes. Some escorts will allow you spend extra time chatting for 'free' depending on their mood, how you get on and how busy they might be later. The same escort may not feel like this or have time for it on a subsequent visit.

I say never expect any extra time regardless of past experience.

In that case you/me/the client should manage the expectation of how the time will be spent.

In my experience no escort is shy about talking about the commercials so don't be shy about taking the lead in these matters and clarifying everything in advance.

Once everything is agreed, you can both relax and get back in the mood for whatever experience you are paying for.

no, do not rethink it its part what the fun is in all of this, so enjoy it the trick is to find the right lady who will guide you through the timing better, or go for a longer time ,i have often got for an hour and stayed much longer, the trick is always ask at the beginning is she stuck for time ?ie, next appointment if she says not then let it flow, but i stress ask her at the beginning first,

I'am not clock watcher but if somebody paid for half h he will get 30 mins I don't think any girls should stay longer for free 10mins whatever I saw last this kind of adv. Is the same like if somebody going for saloon massage not longer after time if u wanna longer pay extra but otherwise If I ve clients regular I can chat no rush. I thinks that's fair

My point is not about extra time.

[Bruno69]

My point is not about extra time.

Nor was mine. It was about taking the lead in managing the time.

[ksteve]

But candles,small dinner,wine and nice atmosphere is not romantic ?I thing it is and is nice.So don't re-thing your plan.

From now on , its flourescent bright lights, a bag of crisps, Robinson's orange quosh , hello and goodbye !!

[ksteve]

i think some posters have missed the op's point i dont think he was looking for free time i think he wanted the escort to make the first move sooner rather than 10 - 15 mins from the end of the appointment.
i know i would expect the escort to make the first move 10-15 mins from the start of the appointment and if we finished sooner then have some chat time at the end not almost 1hr and 15 mins of chat then make the first move.

Take a bow sir -- correct.

[Bruno69]

From now on , its flourescent bright lights, a bag of crisps, Robinson's orange quosh , hello and goodbye !!

They wish

[dave1dave]

From now on , its flourescent bright lights, a bag of crisps, Robinson's orange quosh , hello and goodbye !!

Or even better why not hide the Chocs and champagne under the bed and bring em out as a half time surprise

[Morpheus]

A guy goes to a lot of trouble on a 1.5 hour outcall to create a great atmosphere -- low lighting,candle, champagne , choccies, music--- you get the picture. He drinks most of the bubbly as she will have to drive back from the outcall. For a variety of reasons the conversation is interesting,great fun and lots of laughing. The time absolutely flies. At some stage the guy thinks its time to take things to the next stage and the glasses are put down and both start to get a bit more intimate but not long after the lady whispers " 10 mins left ". In other words, ten minutes to ' get stuck in and get on with it '. What a bummer, what a deflater.

The guy chooses the length of the booking, pays the fee and is encouraged to relax and ' go with the flow'. However, does the escort, the professional, have a responsibility in the scenario outlined above ( slightly longer booking ), to play her part in the management of that time ? Should she subtelty have upped the tempo in order to ensure that there was a reasonable amount of time for the more fundamental activities of the booking, mindful that she would like to leave a happy client behind ? Any thoughts ?

Is this hypothetical Steve or did it happen to you (or someone you know) for real?

Exhausting an hour and half long appointment without realising it is a bit of a faux pas.

However, I would presume that an escort would move things along to the main event if the client appeared to be dilly dallying. Again it depends on the situation - and I'm not sure if you're just talking hypothetically.

I would never happen to me. I'm too horny - always get the business bit out of the way first, so that I can relax with the lovely lady and have some cuddles and chat.

I am also cursed with obsessive traits - so usually time keep myself. Have been caught trying to look at my watch during cunniligus!! Not good!


So in summary, I think an escort should move things along gently to fit the appointment. But either way, even if she doesn't, the client has to take some responsibility - as he's going to be the dissappointed one at the end!

[Morpheus]

Im with Anna on this one... .

I agree with Anna too, .

I always agree with Anna!!

[Morpheus]

Its adult paid dating .

Thats a great term Anna!! I like that. Must store it in my vocabulary for future use.

(Of course that is in essence what escorting is. If only we could convince the rest of the world!)

[ksteve]

Is this hypothetical Steve or did it happen to you (or someone you know) for real?

Exhausting an hour and half long appointment without realising it is a bit of a faux pas.

However, I would presume that an escort would move things along to the main event if the client appeared to be dilly dallying. Again it depends on the situation - and I'm not sure if you're just talking hypothetically.

I would never happen to me. I'm too horny - always get the business bit out of the way first, so that I can relax with the lovely lady and have some cuddles and chat.

I am also cursed with obsessive traits - so usually time keep myself. Have been caught trying to look at my watch during cunniligus!! Not good!


So in summary, I think an escort should move things along gently to fit the appointment. But either way, even if she doesn't, the client has to take some responsibility - as he's going to be the dissappointed one at the end!

Yep-- live and learn. Must cut down on the 'dilly dallying'. Where can I buy a miniture portable clock timer with in-built Big Ben chimes ?? or maybe an egg timer would do the job !