wanted the best 69 (10-05-11)
I understand your issue here Steve; not wanting a 'rushed' experience, but then the shock of hearing "10 minutes left" right when the action was about to start? What a disappointment! I can also agree with the essentials of Anna's post though, as it can't be left fully to the lady, as she could face accusations of clock-watching from speeding things up or of 'running out the clock', which it seems is what happened in your situation.
It's a subtle little dance, and a difficult line to tread, for both escort and client. I suppose both parties should try to stay aware of the time, at least discreetly, as there's few things that are more off-putting for me than a lady constantly checking her watch during an apointment! SO at least now you know for next time to keep things moving along-- but to tell you my own honest opinion on this situation, the girl ran out the clock on you, plain and simple.
Ok, here goes. Some escorts will allow you spend extra time chatting for 'free' depending on their mood, how you get on and how busy they might be later. The same escort may not feel like this or have time for it on a subsequent visit.
I say never expect any extra time regardless of past experience.
In that case you/me/the client should manage the expectation of how the time will be spent.
In my experience no escort is shy about talking about the commercials so don't be shy about taking the lead in these matters and clarifying everything in advance.
Once everything is agreed, you can both relax and get back in the mood for whatever experience you are paying for.
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emmasweet (10-05-11)
no, do not rethink it its part what the fun is in all of this, so enjoy it the trick is to find the right lady who will guide you through the timing better, or go for a longer time ,i have often got for an hour and stayed much longer, the trick is always ask at the beginning is she stuck for time ?ie, next appointment if she says not then let it flow, but i stress ask her at the beginning first,
taking a break, but not gone
IMO I think the onus of blame lies with the client in this case. He knew how much time he had, feck all the peripheral stuff (chocs, champers etc.) he was trying to drag out the appointment, the escort has other customers too and may have other bookings to service. Why should she hang round off the clock? If you don't state the reason the girl is there then you can't blame her for trying to have an easy day.
I'am not clock watcher but if somebody paid for half h he will get 30 mins I don't think any girls should stay longer for free 10mins whatever I saw last this kind of adv. Is the same like if somebody going for saloon massage not longer after time if u wanna longer pay extra but otherwise If I ve clients regular I can chat no rush. I thinks that's fair
Last edited by Army Girl; 10-05-11 at 14:38.
i think some posters have missed the op's point i dont think he was looking for free time i think he wanted the escort to make the first move sooner rather than 10 - 15 mins from the end of the appointment.
i know i would expect the escort to make the first move 10-15 mins from the start of the appointment and if we finished sooner then have some chat time at the end not almost 1hr and 15 mins of chat then make the first move.
Cable87 (10-05-11), Ebony Amber (10-05-11)
Spot-on assessment Jayf1, I'd say that's exactly the issue at hand. Having the lady initiate things is a central part of the fun for me, and I'm sure loads of other punters love it when the lady takes the inititive in that regard! While some criticism might be levelled at the punter in these circumstances, as he wanted to have some conversation in the beginning and didn't want to be too rushed to get into it, I still hold that the lady in question simply ran out the clock on him, and that he drank most of the bottle of champagne in front of her and still she didn nothing until he finally made the first move is case-in-point.
jayf1 (10-05-11)