Watching the clock

[ksteve]

Responsibility lies with both parties, and certainly a degree with the lady.
Some clients don't like to rush into the main event, so rely in part to the professional to ensure the liaison develops naturally.

For example a couple of my regular ladies like to have a drink and chat before retiring to the boudoir. I am happy to do this, as although the chat can last half an hour, I know the remainder of the appointment will be un-rushed and left for me to 'clock-watch'. It does lead to name-calling, but it works.
I believe there should be an element of trust between both parties to ensure the time is managed effectivily, ensuring the appointment reaches it's natural conclusion.

There is nothing worse than being told that your time is up when you have not got passed the kissing stage,
and yes, it has happened to me!

mark, can you explain this pls.

[dave1dave]

I suppose it's an escort's prerogative. From what I've seen here, if an escort does happen to 'tick over' on their own terms, they really don't like it broadcasting anyway, because if it's the basis of a plus point on their review, they get hounded by clients to do the same for them. That's merely an observation from my perspective. I would say that if you pay for an hour, expect an hour and don't chance your arm if it's not done on the terms of the escort.

You hit the nail on the head Sam.
But on a first date if the lady knows she will be asking the client to leave on the hour, she should move the appointment along.

I remember a first date with a particular lady, that as we sat chatting, I was beginning to think to myself. "What's going on here, I'll be leaving soon."
But that was just that ladys style of appointment.
She could have thanked me for the nice chat and showed me the door, and I would have had no one to blame but myself.

[ksteve]

You hit the nail on the head Sam.
But on a first date if the lady knows she will be asking the client to leave on the hour, she should move the appointment along.I remember a first date with a particular lady, that as we sat chatting, I was beginning to think to myself. "What's going on here, I'll be leaving soon."
But that was just that ladys style of appointment.
She could have thanked me for the nice chat and showed me the door, and I would have had no one to blame but myself.

You have me a tad confused there Dave !

[dave1dave]

You have me a tad confused there Dave !

Yep I get that a lot

What I mean is that I would have left feeling ripped off, but would have blamed myself for allowing it to happen.

I should have said that a Good escort will move things along to allow the meeting to progress.

[Anna23]

Hi Steve, it is a tricky one as no matter at what stage the escorts suggest that you should move on with the appointment chances are that she will be acused of clockwatching.
I hope that all clients are aware that chat doesnt come free with the appointment and it counts towards the time as any other activity. So in my opinion if a client is happy to engage in a banter that will last for a significant time of the appointment he should be also prepared to shorten the intimacy part adequately. There is no base on what to expect the escort to work overtime for free on such occasions.
Many clients are done with sex within 10-15mins and like to spend the rest of time chatting while others like to take things slow and it takes them ages to get through the foreplay. The said escort couldnt know that you will be one who likes to take everything slow and expects her to stay way over paid time. When she realised that, she reminded you in advance that the appointment is going slowly but surely to a finish and so should you. So at the end she took responsibility for time management. She also could have said nothing and in ten mins get up in the middle of a thrust with a simple "time up nice meeting you".

Generally both parties should take responsibility and make their expectations clear and make sure they are met. It's not a childs game ffs. Its adult paid dating so there are two parties interacting and if it doesnt go well then there is little point to blame just one party.

[JAMESCORK]

Im with Anna on this one... Especially on a first date how is the escort to know what a client wants. Maybe he likes the chat over the sex. After all he is the client. If I am going to "chat" it is done naaakid next to yer wan as she is toying with my dick. At least if the time is running short I am up and ready...lol.

[Ric Hardgear]

maybe she thought , she was you know with a talker and not a doer, some girls told me that some guys just pay for the company, .....but yea ,the girls do always get right down to it after the initial chit chat, so the girl in question here was soaking up the time to do as little physical activity as possible, this in my experience happens alot during 1hour bookings with girls who have met you for the first time, that is why i always go for the half hour on my first dates so to speak..

[dave1dave]

Im with Anna on this one... Especially on a first date how is the escort to know what a client wants. Maybe he likes the chat over the sex. After all he is the client. If I am going to "chat" it is done naaakid next to yer wan as she is toying with my dick. At least if the time is running short I am up and ready...lol.

I agree with Anna too, but It's probably safe enough to assume that the escort will know the client expects the naked part of the date
In the scenario it sounds like the escort was happy enough to just chat and not even get that far.

A new slant on the term "Timewaster" maybe

[ksteve]

Hi Steve, it is a tricky one as no matter at what stage the escorts suggest that you should move on with the appointment chances are that she will be acused of clockwatching.
I hope that all clients are aware that chat doesnt come free with the appointment and it counts towards the time as any other activity. So in my opinion if a client is happy to engage in a banter that will last for a significant time of the appointment he should be also prepared to shorten the intimacy part adequately. There is no base on what to expect the escort to work overtime for free on such occasions.
Many clients are done with sex within 10-15mins and like to spend the rest of time chatting while others like to take things slow and it takes them ages to get through the foreplay. The said escort couldnt know that you will be one who likes to take everything slow and expects her to stay way over paid time. When she realised that, she reminded you in advance that the appointment is going slowly but surely to a finish and so should you. So at the end she took responsibility for time management. She also could have said nothing and in ten mins get up in the middle of a thrust with a simple "time up nice meeting you".

Generally both parties should take responsibility and make their expectations clear and make sure they are met. It's not a childs game ffs. Its adult paid dating so there are two parties interacting and if it doesnt go well then there is little point to blame just one party.

No. There was nothing ' slowly but surely ' about this. There was no need to have mentioned the time. When she was conscious that that much time had elapsed she could easily have become more subtlely more pro-active and seen what the reaction was. If it was positive great, if not then thats no problem its a matter for the client. If the client reacted positively and my guess is that 99% would have done so , as there had been so much chat eyc beforehand, then the booking proceeds and if everything is over reasonably quicly then there can be more conversation. It is not about wanting an extension of time for free.

[emmasweet]

With this arrangement romantic guy should make a booking of 3 h or more longer or overnight(i charge 600 e 11pm-6am) if in case want more relaxing time and not to rush in things.
But if guy wish 1.5 hour appoitment i always organise time and to be time for everything:chat,a drink,shower,going to showing bedroom