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    A guy goes to a lot of trouble on a 1.5 hour outcall to create a great atmosphere -- low lighting,candle, champagne , choccies, music--- you get the picture. He drinks most of the bubbly as she will have to drive back from the outcall. For a variety of reasons the conversation is interesting,great fun and lots of laughing. The time absolutely flies. At some stage the guy thinks its time to take things to the next stage and the glasses are put down and both start to get a bit more intimate but not long after the lady whispers " 10 mins left ". In other words, ten minutes to ' get stuck in and get on with it '. What a bummer, what a deflater.

    The guy chooses the length of the booking, pays the fee and is encouraged to relax and ' go with the flow'. However, does the escort, the professional, have a responsibility in the scenario outlined above ( slightly longer booking ), to play her part in the management of that time ? Should she subtelty have upped the tempo in order to ensure that there was a reasonable amount of time for the more fundamental activities of the booking, mindful that she would like to leave a happy client behind ? Any thoughts ?

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    this would never happen to me! she might have thought
    that was what her client wanted choccies, candles and drink.
    he could have extended the appointment to 2hrs, perhaps.

    i can't really advise because i am a wham, bham thankyou man.

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    The time management is probably down to the client but perhaps a gentle reminder from the escort wouldn't be out of place.

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    I can't really imagine a lady going to see someone on an outcall for a first date.
    Most ladys I know will only go on an outcall with known clients. ( I could be completely wrong of course )
    So the guy should know the ladys style of date.

    I think the lady really should have speeded things up if she knew that she had to leave at a certain time.
    Actually incall or outcall the same scenario could apply, as in the guy could bring champagne and chocolates ect..

    FFS if a lady waited for me to make the first move I'd never make it past the introductory chat. lol

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    Responsibility lies with both parties, and certainly a degree with the lady.
    Some clients don't like to rush into the main event, so rely in part to the professional to ensure the liaison develops naturally.

    For example a couple of my regular ladies like to have a drink and chat before retiring to the boudoir. I am happy to do this, as although the chat can last half an hour, I know the remainder of the appointment will be un-rushed and left for me to 'clock-watch'. It does lead to name-calling, but it works.

    I believe there should be an element of trust between both parties to ensure the time is managed effectivily, ensuring the appointment reaches it's natural conclusion.

    There is nothing worse than being told that your time is up when you have not got passed the kissing stage,
    and yes, it has happened to me!
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    "10 minutes left" and the client a bit tipsy? he would either have
    to drastically change the pace and atmosphere of the appointment.

    or, continue to pretend that wasn't really what the appointment was about
    and wave goodbye at the door, smiling. an appointment like that, the best part
    of €500? we're all different and provided we are kind to the girls...


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    I suppose it's an escort's prerogative. From what I've seen here, if an escort does happen to 'tick over' on their own terms, they really don't like it broadcasting anyway, because if it's the basis of a plus point on their review, they get hounded by clients to do the same for them. That's merely an observation from my perspective. I would say that if you pay for an hour, expect an hour and don't chance your arm if it's not done on the terms of the escort.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dave1dave View Post
    I can't really imagine a lady going to see someone on an outcall for a first date.
    Most ladys I know will only go on an outcall with known clients. ( I could be completely wrong of course )
    So the guy should know the ladys style of date.

    I think the lady really should have speeded things up if she knew that she had to leave at a certain time.
    Actually incall or outcall the same scenario could apply, as in the guy could bring champagne and chocolates ect..

    FFS if a lady waited for me to make the first move I'd never make it past the introductory chat. lol
    Nice one !!

    I would agree. I think the lady has a responsibility to move things along,provided of course that the client is happy with this, if she is aware that the guy may have lost his sense of time. There is nothing wrong with an escort being pro-active, in fact I would go further, it shows that she is interested in the client and just doesnt want to let the clock run down. Not being pro-active sets the wrong tone and in soccer terms can be a bit like keeping the ball in play but only around the corner flag !!

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    Quote Originally Posted by samlad View Post
    I suppose it's an escort's prerogative. From what I've seen here, if an escort does happen to 'tick over' on their own terms, they really don't like it broadcasting anyway, because if it's the basis of a plus point on their review, they get hounded by clients to do the same for them. That's merely an observation from my perspective. I would say that if you pay for an hour, expect an hour and don't chance your arm if it's not done on the terms of the escort.
    With respect, thats not the main point. The point is the awareness of the clock during the booking and the management of that time when the client may have lost his appreciation of how quickly the time is passing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by warmcome View Post
    "10 minutes left" and the client a bit tipsy? he would either have
    to drastically change the pace and atmosphere of the appointment.

    or, continue to pretend that wasn't really what the appointment was about
    and wave goodbye at the door, smiling. an appointment like that, the best part
    of 500? we're all different and provided we are kind to the girls...

    Correct and that is demeaning to do.

    Very good illustration too.

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