Afraid to speak up!!

[anon361]

I have been pondering over this for a while now but I really feel this forum has lost some of its fundamental essences because we are afraid of how we are perceived by the ladies that interact on these boards and hold back what we really want to say, especially in certain areas.
Several times now I have read threads asking for advice on ladies that I know have sketchy histories yet I am unwilling to share because of the wraith I received in the past for doing so. Surely we cannot afford to lose one major aspect of this forum and that is to alert/advise/warn each other of potential problems in seeing certain escorts for fear other ladies will gang up on us saying a ladies past should be private and she has changed her ways, do they feel the same about a bad client when he is added to the ugly mugs section, is he afforded the same luxury of having his past erased for good behaviour, I don’t think so..
Surely they can see why we as clients would wish to advise each other and not see it purely through escort’s eyes and protect each other; I would like to share more than I do but in this current climate on the boards I can’t, I miss the likes of Bigpaws that weren’t afraid to call a spade a spade, maybe we all should start to look at the way we threat other clients without worrying how it will affect our credibility with certain ladies.
I’m not saying we should disrespect ladies in any way, on the contrary they should always be afforded the utmost courtesy and if provoked avoid lowering yourself to their level but at the same time we should also try to be honest with our fellow clients.