for the same reasons as sum of the other lads,useless at chatting up women no self confidence atall!!. and having spent ALOT of time with beautiful escorts it has helped my confidence an awful lot.but theres still that doubt there!!. like 1 of the lads said i want the kissing the cuddling and just holding hands with a girl.soi have used that affection during appointments with escorts.
but sure every1 is different