Tonight is the "perfect date"...

[mr gear]

whos the lucky lady hobbyist

[Rodney69]

I would love to do it sometime but it's not financially possible. I am saving that experience until the time is right, a special occasion with someone I know I'll get on with, someone I've met a few times.

Until then 1hr appoitnments I'm more than happy with and feel privileged

[Lincoln]

I would love to do it sometime but it's not financially possible. I am saving that experience until the time is right, a special occasion with someone I know I'll get on with, someone I've met a few times.

Until then 1hr appoitnments I'm more than happy with and feel privileged

Well really money is a major obstacle for most mere mortals. If finances permitted I would undoubtedly opt to spend a day or possibly even days (a short holiday) with a girl.

As prolonged visits go I once drove a young lady over to Dundrum after an appointment and we had some lunch and coffee for an hour (on me!!!) which was really great and I'd love to do more simple stuff like that but it was just coincidence really, but yeah pretty sweet....

[kidkool]

Can I ask though,

Would you not be worried being on a date that you would bump into someone you know??

I know if I went on a date with any of the ladies on this site and I happened to bump into a friend or work colleague that I would panic and try find an explanation to who she is!!!

You don't have to just think on the spot of an excuse, you would probably be asked about the lady again the next time you see the person again...

Is it not very risque??

[Rodney69]

Can I ask though,

Would you not be worried being on a date that you would bump into someone you know??

I know if I went on a date with any of the ladies on this site and I happened to bump into a friend or work colleague that I would panic and try find an explanation to who she is!!!

You don't have to just think on the spot of an excuse, you would probably be asked about the lady again the next time you see the person again...

Is it not very risque??

it would depend on what you're friend caught you doing, but if you're just having dinner or a drink wouldn't bother me.
I would just introduce her as a friend, just like I would if it is anyone else.

All depends on whether you're single yourself or in a relationship I guess.

[kidkool]

it would depend on what you're friend caught you doing, but if you're just having dinner or a drink wouldn't bother me.
I would just introduce her as a friend, just like I would if it is anyone else.

All depends on whether you're single yourself or in a relationship I guess.

Ok...lets say your on a dinner with an absolute stunner like VanessaVanny or Aida... How do you say she is "Just a friend"

If you have friends that look like that... you sure as hell wouldn't be on this site bud!!! HAHAHAHA!!!

Ps...Im 29 and single!!

[Rodney69]

Ok...lets say your on a dinner with an absolute stunner like VanessaVanny or Aida... How do you say she is "Just a friend"

If you have friends that look like that... you sure as hell wouldn't be on this site bud!!! HAHAHAHA!!!

Ps...Im 29 and single!!

i'm a little older, not much and single lol
my friends don't do the things I get on here hehe
I think it's all in your head. forget your paying for it and treat it like a social occasion.

[ciara]

i like a mix of longer apointments and quick ones

quick ones are easier in the sense of the wham bam thank you mam so its a bit more impersonal

longer ones u really get to know the others personality and well let ur guard down a lot more, but theres only so many times u can do this and with so many ppl... thats why a mix of both are good, for me anyway!!

and to hobbyist jealous of the lucky lady xxxx

[ksteve]

i like a mix of longer apointments and quick ones

quick ones are easier in the sense of the wham bam thank you mam so its a bit more impersonal

longer ones u really get to know the others personality and well let ur guard down a lot more, but theres only so many times u can do this and with so many ppl... thats why a mix of both are good, for me anyway!!

and to hobbyist jealous of the lucky lady xxxx

Good post !

Being 'stuck' with an eejit on a long dinner date or an overnighter must be the pits, no matter what the money !

[Ebony Amber]

In my head?? haha

Your in denial buddy!! Again if any of us had friends that looked like either of these ladies or many others on E-I... We wouldn't be here!!

I'm being realistic about it..if i was walking through town with one of the ladies on here and was stopped by a friend it opens up a can of worms, how do you know each other? how did u meet? is this your first date? etc etc etc!!!

To me dates are just asking for trouble...don't mind parting with a reasonable amount of cash but paying for dinner dates and over night stays is too much in my opinion!!

Each to their own I guess but longer appointments / dinner dates etc would not be my thing!!

KidKool I don't think that is true. I may look a bit of alright when dolled up in my stockings and what have you but to my mates I'm just me. One of my friends is a 25 year old decent looking guy who visits escorts. I think having a hot friend isn't going to stop you from visiting escorts. Having a hot friend who is prepared to shag your brains out is.
Dinner dates and longer appointments are obviously not for everyone.

Thanks Amber... I think what were both trying to say is....


Can.... WORMS.... EVERYWHERE!!!!!


Awkward moments...Indeed!!!!!

Not always. This was one particular time where things went a bit pair shaped. I have been on many other outings with clients without hiccup.

Y'see the zing-the-back-of-yer-balls detail there is the "I was 18 and escorting in Belgium..."

Bloomin heck...what a prospect

Thats a great story EA !!

I take my hat off to you. If I had been in your position I would not have been so co-operative. He should have made sure that you were not put into that situation. Thats his fault.Otherwise, if that was a possibility the two of you could have prepared your story. Well done for keeping calm in the circumstances.

Exactly. He was not very smart- taking me to the place that his friends frequent. Not providing me with much of his backround info etc. This was a job I was sent on via an agency and had never previously met or spoken to the client before. Nowdays as an indie I work differently. I will never commit to a DD or longer appointment if I haven't had previous posative communication with a person. I won't even do outcalls without a reference. This is to ensure I am happy spending long hours with someone. It is not everyone I want to be with for 3 hours- money or not.