Tonight is the "perfect date"...

[Forrest]

I am not trying to tar all longer appointments with the same brush but over all I do think they are a very bad idea!! Anything from the overall cost of the meet up, which I think is an insane amount of money to be spending on one night for one lady...
If were honest about it, the clients meet the ladies on here primarly for sexual pleasure and the add ons Im sure are nice and you build up a rapport etc which could also lead to you falling for the lady in question... or vice versa!!

When I first started visiting escorts, it was for the pure physical, sexual, pleasure, but as I got to know certain ladies over the years I decided that I would like to spend more time getting to know the person behind the hot body. While you may never get the 100% full story of an escorts 'other' life, you do get an opportunity to get to know them as a person, which can make the more intimate aspect of the encounter even more passionate.

As for the cost, on my first overnight encounter, I didn't really know what to expect, but it was with a lady I had met for a couple of 2 hr appointments and we exchanged emails on a regular basis, so I knew we could communicate as we had some things in common. What surprised me was the amount of sexual fun we actually engaged in - 1) before going for a meal, 2) after the meal before going to sleep, 3) wake up to a bj and more fun before breakfast. When you break that down, there were three one hour(minimum) sessions, and in between there was hugging, kissing, flirting and chat. A lot of money, but well worth the cost, with the right lady, in my opinion. It's not something I would do on a regular basis, because of the cost but, for special occasions, I cannot think of anything better.

Btw, on dinner dates or overnights, I always choose out of the way locations, that significantly reduce the possibility of meeting someone I know.

[Ebony Amber]

Of course you would love it.. you were just paid €1k for one night of having sex, had dinner and drinks bought for you!!

Who wouldnt like that?!

Well I have also been paid to:

listen to a gentlemans marital problems, not been able to sleep a wink as I'm being proddedme at 5.30am and been kissed with the worst morning breath ever. When that happened to me I would have gladly handed the money back.

I have also found that sometimes when a client is handing you such a large amount of money he sees himself as your "boss". Expecting extra services, that you won't sleep as he is paying you to stay awake and sometimes not even feed you!

Obviously I am an escort and the money (not nessacerily 1k btw) is brilliant for that but it is not always worth it. A lot of ladies will not do overnights. If I can make the same amount of money in a days work and sleep a peaceful night in my own bed. It is for this reason I will only except longer bookings with someone I like. Money motivates me yes- but it doesn't guarentee me.

[kidkool]

When I first started visiting escorts, it was for the pure physical, sexual, pleasure, but as I got to know certain ladies over the years I decided that I would like to spend more time getting to know the person behind the hot body. While you may never get the 100% full story of an escorts 'other' life, you do get an opportunity to get to know them as a person, which can make the more intimate aspect of the encounter even more passionate.

As for the cost, on my first overnight encounter, I didn't really know what to expect, but it was with a lady I had met for a couple of 2 hr appointments and we exchanged emails on a regular basis, so I knew we could communicate as we had some things in common. What surprised me was the amount of sexual fun we actually engaged in - 1) before going for a meal, 2) after the meal before going to sleep, 3) wake up to a bj and more fun before breakfast. When you break that down, there were three one hour(minimum) sessions, and in between there was hugging, kissing, flirting and chat. A lot of money, but well worth the cost, with the right lady, in my opinion. It's not something I would do on a regular basis, because of the cost but, for special occasions, I cannot think of anything better.

Btw, on dinner dates or overnights, I always choose out of the way locations, that significantly reduce the possibility of meeting someone I know.

Well you kinda back up my arguement, you take longer appointments now to feel your building up a relationship...why bother?? It's business... the liklihood of of an actual relationship is slim, although I have heard of it happening of course... Your taking the longer booking to have a more intimate experience with someone you more than likely can't have it with permenantly!

Seems like a contradictary situation to me...

[kidkool]

Well I have also been paid to:

listen to a gentlemans marital problems, not been able to sleep a wink as I'm being proddedme at 5.30am and been kissed with the worst morning breath ever. When that happened to me I would have gladly handed the money back.

I have also found that sometimes when a client is handing you such a large amount of money he sees himself as your "boss". Expecting extra services, that you won't sleep as he is paying you to stay awake and sometimes not even feed you!

Obviously I am an escort and the money (not nessacerily 1k btw) is brilliant for that but it is not always worth it. A lot of ladies will not do overnights. If I can make the same amount of money in a days work and sleep a peaceful night in my own bed. It is for this reason I will only except longer bookings with someone I like. Money motivates me yes- but it doesn't guarentee me.

I would 100% would agree with everything you said there as well.. I'm sure you have had situations where you just want it to be over with and to get the guy out but because of the extended booking it isnt possible..

I didnt mean for my comment to come across so matter of factly, there are good and bad to every situation

[Ebony Amber]

I would 100% would agree with everything you said there as well.. I'm sure you have had situations where you just want it to be over with and to get the guy out but because of the extended booking it isnt possible..

I didnt mean for my comment to come across so matter of factly, there are good and bad to every situation

Exactly

Also- I have no quarms in handing back money and leaving if I am that pissed off. Obviously I will deal with snoring and stuff but rudeness and an overly demanding nature I have no time for.

[Forrest]

Well you kinda back up my arguement, you take longer appointments now to feel your building up a relationship...why bother?? It's business... the liklihood of of an actual relationship is slim, although I have heard of it happening of course... Your taking the longer booking to have a more intimate experience with someone you more than likely can't have it with permenantly!

Seems like a contradictary situation to me...

I don't know how you came to that conclusion. I didn't say I was trying to build a relationship. I know it's a business, and I know I'm not going to have a 'relationship' with any of the escorts I meet. What I said was I prefer to engage in casual chat and getting to know the lady as it makes the encounter seem less surreal. I have the height of respect for every escort I meet and want to enjoy their company through conversation, laughing, joking, telling stories, as much as the sexual side.
For me, it's not all about sex and it has helped to keep me sane when my home life was threatening to swamp me.

You have been arguing that longer appointments are just not worth the money. I argued that I have always gotten good 'value' when I have indulged. You stick to your shorter appointments, I will continue to do what keeps me sane, and the world can continue to spin on its axis for another few millennia.

[kidkool]

I don't know how you came to that conclusion. I didn't say I was trying to build a relationship. I know it's a business, and I know I'm not going to have a 'relationship' with any of the escorts I meet. What I said was I prefer to engage in casual chat and getting to know the lady as it makes the encounter seem less surreal. I have the height of respect for every escort I meet and want to enjoy their company through conversation, laughing, joking, telling stories, as much as the sexual side.
For me, it's not all about sex and it has helped to keep me sane when my home life was threatening to swamp me.

You have been arguing that longer appointments are just not worth the money. I argued that I have always gotten good 'value' when I have indulged. You stick to your shorter appointments, I will continue to do what keeps me sane, and the world can continue to spin on its axis for another few millennia.

Again all the above sounds much like your are chasing more of a relationship... when you say you want conversation, laughter, telling stories...this is what you do with a partner, e.g. a girlfriend or wife....That..is how I come to my conclusion!!!

Like I've previously said, each to their own... I can think of a long list of reason why it is a bad idea.. more so than I can think of it being a positive experience... no doubt the h will come back on tomorrow and be full of praise and joys of his wonderful night and fair play to him!!

[Forrest]

Again all the above sounds much like your are chasing more of a relationship... when you say you want conversation, laughter, telling stories...this is what you do with a partner, e.g. a girlfriend or wife....That..is how I come to my conclusion!!!

Like I've previously said, each to their own... I can think of a long list of reason why it is a bad idea.. more so than I can think of it being a positive experience... no doubt the h will come back on tomorrow and be full of praise and joys of his wonderful night and fair play to him!!

You are entitled to your opinion, but you are making crass assumptions about me.
I know what I'm doing and enjoying very positive experiences, not on a regular basis, but enough to keep me from going mad.
You think what you want, but don't try and make out you know what I'm doing, because you don't.

By the way, having a conversation with an escort is not forbidden, they are human and, sometimes, it's just nice to talk and have a laugh, and leave the sex to one side for a while.
As you say, each to their own. I don't make assumptions about your preferences, so I don't think you should make assumptions about mine.

[Headlad]

I could have sworn this thread had Amber telling us stories in it. Way to bring it down, you two

[Ebony Amber]

I could have sworn this thread had Amber telling us stories in it. Way to bring it down, you two

Don't worry darling- I've got lots of stories for ya. Most are a lot dirtier than the last


I'll tell you them over our 1 week appointment