I don't know what percentages of guys on here are married, but I'd guess in the majority, but it is a fair point, and one which I think was covered well by another poster a few days ago in this thread: https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...t=63956&page=2

"i love my wife more than anything else on this planet,i never met anyone as kind hearted or good looking and i do feel guilty the very very odd time i meet an escort but the way i see it,if my wife cant deep throat and wont take it up the ass,or even let me cum inside her mouth. . -I mean we only live life once and its something i just have to get out of my system every once in a while. . . In every other way possible i treat her as best i can. I have a fault and no ones perfect?

The answer to your question is yes, it does demean a marriage, breaks the contract that you both entered into (presuming you both claim to be monogamous). Does it diminish your love, no I feel the emotional connection that I have with my wife as a result of our combined experiences with each other do not diminish because I like to have random girls give me blowjobs.

But good topic and I think it's interesting to see what reaction comes to the post.