Excellent post JC !
I don't see anything 'amazing ' about 'admitting ' ED on an open board-- you would swear that you were guilty of some heinous crime or love of unnatural practices !! I understand that ED is very common indeed and therefore is something that guys should have no difficulty whatsoever in discussing. I am not an expert on the subject but it strikes me that if a guy fails to acheive an erection with one lady but then has no difficulty doing so with another lady or indeed his partner that he prolly does not have ED and his difficulty on occasions may be down to a whole host of reasons.
Many guys think that they should be automatically turned on when in an intimate situation with a lady and if you are not then there must be something wrong with you. We are not in fact machines and personally there are times when I am fully in the zone and times when I am not. Particularly, with the stresses of the last few years in this country , I have personally found that this has had an impact on my 'performance' and I think thats more than understandable and on occasion I have been happy to avail of a little booster to help me along. So what ? It's only a friggin' tablet. I take tablets for headaches and hangovers too !!.
Look, I doubt whether most escorts give a fiddlers about the clients erection in general. As professionals though, they want to give a good service and success for them is to see their client enjoying what they offer , and getting a decent erection and then climaxing in due course is evidence of this -- a job well done !! From the guy's point of view he wants this as well as he is spending his hard earned shekels but also,and I think this can be overlooked, he is actually anxious to show to the escort that he appreciates her and that she is indeed having the desired positive effect on him.
Men have traditionally and in my opinion somewhat stupidly, been slow to look after their health and to talk about it also. Women are light years ahead of us on this front -- they have no difficulty discussing and seeking advice from each other on issues affecting their health. We wait until we are grumpy old men and then become pre-occupied with talking about our ailments !! We need to wisen up and start looking after ourselves more and that includes discussion with each other.
Again, good post JC !