How many suffer from anxiety during meeting with an escort?

[monster_monster]

I think the nerves are one of the many reasons I visit escorts, you can't beat them. But when I was younger and new to punting they were a little too much and as I was on the way to the appointment I'd be mainly just farting, it was awful. I remember going into an apartment and having to clench my arse cheeks, no fun at all Once we got down to a bit of action I immediately forgot about the nerves and was fart free

[kelso]

im pretty sure it happens to all guys at some stage, happened to me with escort girls on 2 occasions i can remember, the last time not so long ago- no real reason for it! but it can be from stress, alcohol, or nerves.

[hd7055]

I think the nerves are one of the many reasons I visit escorts, you can't beat them. But when I was younger and new to punting they were a little too much and as I was on the way to the appointment I'd be mainly just farting, it was awful. I remember going into an apartment and having to clench my arse cheeks, no fun at all Once we got down to a bit of action I immediately forgot about the nerves and was fart free

Way too much information!

But yeah - we all get nervous particularly meeting a new lady. Talk to them and explain how you feel and things generally work out ...

[carlos marvado]

This may sound funny, but it seems to me that some guys are concentrating too much on the sexual part of the encounter........going there with sex on the brain, high expectations and anxiety if things dont work out. What's the worst that can happen?........failure to get or maintain an erection or achieve orgasm. In which case your talk, fool around, have a massage and a bit of a laugh. Some of you guys may be putting yourselves under too much pressure........just go with the attitude that you're going to enjoy yourselves with a nice female companion and if the geyser erupts.....it's a bonus.

Only felt nervous once and that was my first time with an escort........after that I took to it like a duck to water.

If you go out with the atitude that the performace of a lifetime is expected of you, you run the risk of bringing on stage fright.

[Ric Hardgear]

you know ..its the encounter ,..the date i like ,the ejaculation lasts a mere second its the quality of the hour or half that counts..if its all about cuming...then your missing the point,..you would be better off wanking alone to a pic off halle berry

[Violette]

It is quite commonplace sad but true, and some compound it by going and having a drink before meeting an escort. This doesn't help fellas.

[TheH]

Hi Guys.

I just want to get a general view on this. This is something that has been happening to me sometimes for a while where I am with an escort and sometimes I am just very nervous and I zone out and can't stay erect when I am with them. Funny thing is I have no problem on my own and can get and stay erect just fine but I spoke to one of the escorts about this and she says that she gets it all of the time. I wonder is it just shyness or anxiety? If anyone else has had this problem and overcame it can you let me know your techniques if any?

I think it's a case of practice makes perfect. When I started booking appointments the first few were nerve wracking....(never had a problem staying erect - But I put that down to the skill of the lady ) .... and I would be quite awkward and monosyllabic during the session........the more I went however the more relaxed I became and eventually it fades away altogether...Now it's a completely different experience, I know what I like and what to expect both of myself and of the ladies. A bit of Lap dancing or a massage to kick things off should help you ease into an encounter.....It's a confidence thing at the end of the day - when you feel confident about yourself and the situation you will be a different man !

[ksteve]

you know ..its the encounter ,..the date i like ,the ejaculation lasts a mere second its the quality of the hour or half that counts..if its all about cuming...then your missing the point,..you would be better off wanking alone to a pic off halle berry

Well I see your point but I would suggest for the vast amount of punters that climaxing is an all important part of the booking.Whilst you might have enjoyed the encounter, if you havent enjoyed a climax then I think most guys would feel they sortb of 'missed out' a bit. Certainly, from an escorts perspective, I would guess that most would question the success of the booking if their client didnt climax.Once he has, by and large the lady will chalk it up as a job well done.!

[Forrest]

you know ..its the encounter ,..the date i like ,the ejaculation lasts a mere second its the quality of the hour or half that counts..if its all about cuming...then your missing the point,..you would be better off wanking alone to a pic off halle berry

I totally agree with you on that Ric. The climax is not as important as the overall experience. It's never been important to me but, as KSteve says, some ladies don't consider their job to be complete, if the client doesn't cum.

As to the op, there are a lot more malfunctions by clients than would be readily admitted.
It has happened to me on occasion but I still enjoyed the company of a beautiful lady, so no biggie(excuse the pun)
The important thing is to just relax and enjoy yourself and let it all happen in it's own good time.

[Lincoln]

I dont think it's anything to worry about, it probably happens more than you think.
Sometimes we just go through stages and worry about matters which distracts us from our companions.

Since October I have met around 45 ladies of whom I have failed to maintain an erection with three.
I even made a follow up appointment with one of the ladies and the same thing happened to my alarm.
I however made appointments over the following days with other ladies with no problem.

Sometimes two people are not compatible. It's not that the lady is not attractive, sexy or desirable.
Sometimes it just happens, not your fault nor the escorts, it's just because we aren't machines, so why should we act as such.

Best thing to do is to move on and make sure you select the right lady for the next appointment.
You may be more nervous the next time, but make sure you arrange a suitable length of appointment to ensure you don't have to worry about time.

It's easy to say this, but try to forget about passed problems, enjoy your encounter and fantasise that you are with someone you love. By doing so, you think less of the physical act and more of the joining between two people.

Bloody hell Mark, you are a true libertarian!!!

But yeah I agree, basic compatibility can sometimes be missing and in that case nothing is going to happen (have enough punts like that and you will seriously start reconsidering the punting lifestyle)

But, Captivated, as Michael Jackson said you are not alone. In a long and chequered punting career I have had at least 20 or so instances of failure to launch. If it does happen yer best off just havin a laugh about it and roll around naked on the bed for half an hour (sure isnt that grand too), dont get uptight about it (esp with the girl) IT IS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD