You sound frustrated about something Shirleyy ??
In answer to your question -- No -- it is not just about the pics. Having said that, if I dont like the pics then I am unlikey to be interested to go any further. I guess most guys are the same and that is why I do not understand why some ladies post such poor quality pics. It completely detracts from what they are trying to achieve.
Congrats on your website -- it is very re-assuring to see an escort with her own website. It gives off a good professional vibe and also signifies that the lady is likely to be truly independent.