escorts complain about der time being wasted but yet so many escorts dont care about clients time.
when things are quiet clients are treated great and spoken to regular but once it gets busy then some clients can go whistle dixie. my reason 4 this is i have been speakin to an escort 4 a while now and pms bein goin bak and 4th and also spoke on the phone but when i rang i got no reply,oh and i rang a few times.and all i was lookin 4 was even a text to say im sorry i cant se you today and i would be happy with that but i didnt even get that.so the next time an escort complains about der time being wasted just spare a thought for the clients who also dont like to be left wondering because its our time too..thanks very much..... oh before people assume something i never had arranged a time and date with escort but i was ringin to try and see when is best for the escort. if i was a stranger to the escort i would understand but im not a stranger..i suppose most escorts know i dont have hundreds to spend so maybe im just at the end of der priorities..
Well of course common courtesy is very important. Do remember as well that these ladies are, for the most part, professionals in a difficult field and have to juggle many demands while always putting their best face forward. No doubt they also need a lot of down-time. U do not have any rights to their time. And imagine u were to ring a friend of urs and he/she didnt answer cos they were working....would u b so offended then? U sound a little hurt and of course thats understandable but do remember the professional/client relationship. All the best!
I really think he might have been ringing a friend of his. Dangerous thing to develop but we are all only human.
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if you wer waitin to hear from someone wouldnt you appreciate a simple text msg or something to say dont wait around as i cant see you or would you rather be left waiting not knowing wether your messege was read or wether your request has fallen on def ears.i totally understand the struggle escorts go through everyday and yes dey can be truly magnificent the way they treat us and respond to us but when i make several contacts with someone and then i try to make an appointment with this person but get no reply from her and even after several phone calls and a few text msgs and even after the escort has finished work and further more even after the escort can make a trip to the chatroom then yes i expect a text msg or something from the escort saying at least something,so when an escort doesnt do any of this its simply cause she couldnt care less
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I'm going to assume this is about me as I have a few calls from u this morning , the other day when it was me day OFF u called a good few times and I was talking to u for quite a while but my dear please remember I don't use my phone while with clients so leaves little time to reply to be honest iv only got them this morning as u can see I'm an early bird so late in the eve when I'm v tired I'm not going to go through my phone which u hope u can understand is not rude it's called being human getting tired mixed with also keeping sometime for my own life
Originally Posted by itstimenow
Yes I'm an escort but I'm stil ONE HUMAN person so just chill out yeah
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I'm going to go off at a slight tangent here.
It may not be what the op is talking about, but it made me think. It sometimes happens.
It's good to be friendly with an escort and I would like to think that I am in a position to be a friend to one or two special ladies.
What I am however, is mindful that an escort may get worried if a client become to close, or needy.
I would hate an escort to think that of me in that way.
I would therefore never phone an escort for a chat, unless invited, and would only send an occasional PM if I thought one of my friends seemed quiet, lonely or perhaps was working to much and needed a boost.
I would do this to show 'my friend', that someone was thinking about them but I would never expect a reply, as I'm mindful the difficulties the ladies experience on a day to day basis.
It must be difficult for an escort to be friendly with a client where that client became over friendly.
We have all heard the problems caused by clients becoming infatuated with an escort.
The last thing I would wish is for an escort to think that I would be one of those people.
Therefore, I always keep communication to a minimum, but hope 'my friend' would know that she could contact me at any time, even for a chat about nothing.
A friend after all is someone who offers the hand of friendship, without expecting anything in return.
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just after reading through this comment also as earlier i didnt get time to scroll through fully,
Originally Posted by itstimenow
babe when im in the cat room its for some light entertainment when im finished for the day, i want working that then so why would i go through my fone i need a break also
if u have a normal job maybe u work 9 - 5 or whatever then your finished for the day so i take my apts for the day and in the evening im finished , not scrolling thorough my fone this thread is a joke , u could have called once or twice then left it til another day rather that get yourself all wound up babe , or if u where that unbelievably horny that u couldnt wait, call another escort
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You do make a good point about a text message being nice or desirable.
BUT - I think you expect too much from these ladies. You are not entitled to a response from them. If you dont get an answer after a couple of tries move on. Repeatedly calling a girl and then posting a thread about them is bordering on harrassment.
I get the impression that you might perhaps form too close a relationship with these girls and expect or read into it too much.
If I am wrong then tell me so.
If I am right, only you will know within yourself if I am, then I would suggest you might want to take a break from seeing escorts.
It's not like buying a car where you can endlessly complain to and contact the garage who sold it to you.
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if she has been nice enough to reply to pm's...chat with u in the chat room and even on the phone dont u think its YOU who should have the respect and cope on to realise she is probaby busy and doesnt have time for you. you arent even one of her regulars. seems to me like she has been pretty nice to you..................i sent her shit loads of pms and she never replys haha
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its a two sided street,I rang a girl last weekin D1 (genna) told her i'd be there in about an hour, got delayed by maybe half an hour due to work , and when i parked up and rang her she said she didnt want to meet me, then sent me a couple of txts saying irish guys dont know how to treat escorts, thats why there are no decent girls here, really ott,i went elswhere and was very happy.