Receiving an invitation to book from an escort

[ksteve]

I guess there may be mixed views about this.

What do you all think about male members here receiving an invitation from an escort to book her. Some girls might think it too much of a strong sell or too forward or presumptious or that for some reason it might give out the wrong signals. Personally I dont at all.

As for the guys would you like to receive invitations ? If you didnt want to take up that invitation -- what is a good way to respond ?

An escort might have a range of reasons to issue such an invitation. She might feel from reading other girls reviews that the guy might be a suitable client, she might like the sound of him from his posts, she might hear nice words on the girls grapevine etc,etc-- the reasons may be myriad.

What do you all think ?

[Monkeynut]

Happened to me twice but only visited once ...... PM is by far the best way, either from the lady or myself to book an appointment. I have no issue with ladies PMing me. It is soliciting though .....

[BIGTYM2010]

An anxious girl might make a better punt, I don't mind it atal. As far as not taking them up on there offer I think honesty is the best policy,not to mess them around like just let her know thanks but no thanks so she knows were she stands.

[Blond chick NIKKY]

Do u mean TXT or PM ??? I think thats sad and desperate. Never will do that.

[lovethegirls]

I wouldnt have a problem receiving invitations by pm.
Cant see any of the ladies that post here doing that though to be honest.

[Rodney69]

I think if you have never ever had any contact with the escort, and she PMs you to make an appointment that seems a bit desperate to me.

However if she likes something you have posted on the boards for eg. and starts up a conversation that way, then it's OK

And if you have been exchanging PMs, then I don't see the problem with it at all.

[ksteve]

I think if you have never ever had any contact with the escort, and she PMs you to make an appointment that seems a bit desperate to me.
However if she likes something you have posted on the boards for eg. and starts up a conversation that way, then it's OK

And if you have been exchanging PMs, then I don't see the problem with it at all.

I just dont see it at all in that way! The fact that an escort advertises herself in effect means that she is issuing an invitation anyway to the general public and unless there is a major problem,she is likely to proceed with a booking with whoever turns up at the door. Now if I were her, I would far prefer to have a greater say in who turns up.

Some time ago I received a pm, out of the blue, from one of the most beautiful and successful ladies on this site. I am sure she had no great reason to contact me other than she had formed the view that I was generally the type of client that suited her. I thought more of her, not less of her -- there was nothing 'personal ' in her approach -- it was just good business and I respect her fully for that.

[Blond chick NIKKY]

I just dont see it at all in that way! The fact that an escort advertises herself in effect means that she is issuing an invitation anyway to the general public and unless there is a major problem,she is likely to proceed with a booking with whoever turns up at the door. Now if I were her, I would far prefer to have a greater say in who turns up.

Some time ago I received a pm, out of the blue, from one of the most beautiful and successful ladies on this site. I am sure she had no great reason to contact me other than she had formed the view that I was generally the type of client that suited her. I thought more of her, not less of her -- there was nothing 'personal ' in her approach -- it was just good business and I respect her fully for that.

Ok,now i am curious... WHO is she

[Morpheus]

I just dont see it at all in that way! The fact that an escort advertises herself in effect means that she is issuing an invitation anyway to the general public and unless there is a major problem,she is likely to proceed with a booking with whoever turns up at the door. Now if I were her, I would far prefer to have a greater say in who turns up.

Some time ago I received a pm, out of the blue, from one of the most beautiful and successful ladies on this site. I am sure she had no great reason to contact me other than she had formed the view that I was generally the type of client that suited her. I thought more of her, not less of her -- there was nothing 'personal ' in her approach -- it was just good business and I respect her fully for that.

I think I was the recepient of a friendly PM by the same girl. To be honest, she wasnt' even on my radar before then. And it led to a lovely encounter with her subsequently after we'd exhanged PM's and also had some banter on the boards!

And being male, it really stroked my ego , knowing that she'd read my posts and read my profile. Silly I know, but ladies - don't underrate the male ego!

[nick2010]

I agree with Nikki here, that to me is desperate never did and never will, but I don't Judy nobody everyone knows how to run they own business.
I just think if I send a PM to a client, inviting him to book me and perhaps he has no interest on me. What he would do?
I die if I get a pm back saying no thanks or even no reply at all ... lol
I think pm'ing clients is putting them in a very weird situation if there has no interest to meet.
Even though we are escorts I think men still like to conquest the woman and not have one on they faces (I can be wrong, but maybe the most of the times :-).
It's nice to share mutual interest, but I still think the first step must come from the clients anyway. xxx