Receiving an invitation to book from an escort

[mellors]

You are right, don’t underrate the male egos.
Touting does generate business and seems that many members wouldn’t mind getting PMs from escorts “inviting” them to visit her, so the ones doing it might have found that the PMs were a good way to advertise themselves however I wonder if when “inviting” you are not opening a door for misunderstandings and hagglers for example. I wouldn’t be comfortable doing it.

I don't think it leads to a misunderstanding its just like breaking the ice with a conversation, for instance an escort PMed me out of the blue saying one of my posts had made her laugh (A women of taste) .I thought that was really nice and we now occassionally swap PMs and I will definetly see her, whereas before I probably wouldn't of come across her. I agree just random Pming probably wouldn't be a good idea.

[Jasmin]

I don't think it leads to a misunderstanding its just like breaking the ice with a conversation, for instance an escort PMed me out of the blue saying one of my posts had made her laugh (A women of taste) .I thought that was really nice and we now occassionally swap PMs and I will definetly see her, whereas before I probably wouldn't of come across her. I agree just random Pming probably wouldn't be a good idea.

Probably the difference is in how to make it then, if someone started a conversation as you said is something but the OP said receiving an invitation from an escort to book her. that I think it is too much, at least for me.

[TheCelticDream]

Probably the difference is in how to make it then, if someone started a conversation as you said is something but the OP said receiving an invitation from an escort to book her. that I think it is too much, at least for me.

i think if a girl is the one to start a pm converstaion which leads to an appointment its ok but ur right... actually asking for one is a bit much.

[mellors]

Probably the difference is in how to make it then, if someone started a conversation as you said is something but the OP said receiving an invitation from an escort to book her. that I think it is too much, at least for me.

Yeah your right, thats just a bit blatant and desperate.Perhaps there are more subtle ways ! Had forgotten what the OP had said.

[JAMESCORK]

I wouldnt have a problem receiving invitations by pm.
Cant see any of the ladies that post here doing that though to be honest.

I have received a few of these... and I have visited one.... but I am not totally comfortable receiving them for the reason Nick highlights, if you dont fancy the girl how do you answer nicely with a "No Thnaks". If the PM is a question or contains a greeting I will always answer, but if it is a blatant generic PM like "In Cork, Monday to Friday...please PM for an appointment" I tend not to answer.

As far as ladies that post here are concerned, they are the most likely to. Two ladies that have thanked here have PMed me. One thanked a post stating that this 'practise' is sad....lol.

[Morpheus]

You are right, don’t underrate the male egos.
Touting does generate business and seems that many members wouldn’t mind getting PMs from escorts “inviting” them to visit her, so the ones doing it might have found that the PMs were a good way to advertise themselves however I wonder if when “inviting” you are not opening a door for misunderstandings and hagglers for example. I wouldn’t be comfortable doing it.

I think we all know (or at least those of us who have had the privilege of meeting you) that you are too much of a lady to be doing the above.

You exude a level of class that has been lost from general society today. So much so that many of us men have forgotten how to appreciate that subtle sensuality.

You need to write a book Jasmin, so that the secret isn't lost with you.

[wanted the best 69]

to be honest, as Morp. said it does flatter the male ego,i have only ever received one out of the blue pm`s asking to meet up with an escort who was thinking of coming here to work, i guess in these hard days all standards then to head south

[LynnT]

I so see it as spam mail.. as I said before, you didnt sign up for a mailing list..

I dont think its cool for ladies to do this.. its a no no with the gents around my area.

This is why we have adverts and board posts.. let you know we are here.. not sending emails asking to book.. desperate and fishy IMO.

[nikole_vb3]

that is interesting...:X

I guess there may be mixed views about this.

What do you all think about male members here receiving an invitation from an escort to book her. Some girls might think it too much of a strong sell or too forward or presumptious or that for some reason it might give out the wrong signals. Personally I dont at all.

As for the guys would you like to receive invitations ? If you didnt want to take up that invitation -- what is a good way to respond ?

An escort might have a range of reasons to issue such an invitation. She might feel from reading other girls reviews that the guy might be a suitable client, she might like the sound of him from his posts, she might hear nice words on the girls grapevine etc,etc-- the reasons may be myriad.

What do you all think ?

[Amy Alison]

Male ego being stroked because an escort PMs you for a booking ???
You DO realise that if an escort sends such PMs she will send them to a lot of registered users? Those mails are not personal at all, just copy & paste duplicates.

PMing a guy out of the blue for a little chat, advice etc – totally fine!!!
We, escorts are also here as just simple site users, taking part in the fun and having our preferred or less preferred users, so we are not always acting in the escorting capacity, although it may be difficult for some people to see the distinction line between. I did PM once in a while some nice people to say thanks for a certain posting, or to show my respect for a clever/funny idea, or simply ask how are they in general etc… I even requested some discreet information at some stage, nothing that was bad or suspicious.

PMing a guy out of the blue to inform about an upcoming tour? Not something I will ever do but there is no harm done. It’s information. If you are happy to go forward, just do so, if not disregard the message.

PMing a regular of a special offer? Nice. I haven’t done that but we assume regulars must like us, how else othwerise they would be regulars and if they paid the full rate before, they will be happy to hear you got specials.

PMing a guy to request to be booked? Stinks of desperation. An escort at anytime could put a post about some special offers, make some new sexier pics if she feel she needs them, get more involved on the forums to make herself known. Begging to be booked it goes against most things I am standing for as an escort. The more girls are doing this, the worst the escorting scene will become. There is already a huge choice of escorts and less money available to go around. If clients would expect escorts to solicit them, I rather do sexy webcam chats then remain an escort.

So, yes, I do not agree with PMs to ask clients to book you. There are other ways to make your profile more visible if you wish and you still get to keep your dignity