Receiving an invitation to book from an escort

[ksteve]

I think if you have never ever had any contact with the escort, and she PMs you to make an appointment that seems a bit desperate to me.
However if she likes something you have posted on the boards for eg. and starts up a conversation that way, then it's OK

And if you have been exchanging PMs, then I don't see the problem with it at all.

I just dont see it at all in that way! The fact that an escort advertises herself in effect means that she is issuing an invitation anyway to the general public and unless there is a major problem,she is likely to proceed with a booking with whoever turns up at the door. Now if I were her, I would far prefer to have a greater say in who turns up.

Some time ago I received a pm, out of the blue, from one of the most beautiful and successful ladies on this site. I am sure she had no great reason to contact me other than she had formed the view that I was generally the type of client that suited her. I thought more of her, not less of her -- there was nothing 'personal ' in her approach -- it was just good business and I respect her fully for that.

[Blond chick NIKKY]

I just dont see it at all in that way! The fact that an escort advertises herself in effect means that she is issuing an invitation anyway to the general public and unless there is a major problem,she is likely to proceed with a booking with whoever turns up at the door. Now if I were her, I would far prefer to have a greater say in who turns up.

Some time ago I received a pm, out of the blue, from one of the most beautiful and successful ladies on this site. I am sure she had no great reason to contact me other than she had formed the view that I was generally the type of client that suited her. I thought more of her, not less of her -- there was nothing 'personal ' in her approach -- it was just good business and I respect her fully for that.

Ok,now i am curious... WHO is she

[El Gordo]

I agree with Nikky and Nick. It seems sad and desperate. But I doubt that it's a very frequent practice. I don't think I ever got a pm from someone I didn't know at all suggesting a booking. Most pm's I get from escorts are clearly purely social. There are some which are in between. For example, I might know the lady slightly from the boards or chat and the pm isn't a direct request for a booking but rather something more ambiguous like "Do you like my new pictures?". My usual practice is to treat those as honest questions, even if I suspect they are not.

[Morpheus]

I guess there may be mixed views about this.

What do you all think about male members here receiving an invitation from an escort to book her. Some girls might think it too much of a strong sell or too forward or presumptious or that for some reason it might give out the wrong signals. Personally I dont at all.

As for the guys would you like to receive invitations ? If you didnt want to take up that invitation -- what is a good way to respond ?

An escort might have a range of reasons to issue such an invitation. She might feel from reading other girls reviews that the guy might be a suitable client, she might like the sound of him from his posts, she might hear nice words on the girls grapevine etc,etc-- the reasons may be myriad.

What do you all think ?

Being sent an invitation to make an appointment may be a little forward. However, I've been sent friend invites or just hello PM's from escorts I've never met - with some great outcomes.

The hello PM's were completely casual and friendly and didn't demand a response or reply. In every case I then checked out the girls' profile (curiosity at the height!) and then replied if I was interested. In most of these cases, I hadn't even noticed the girl's profile before she sent me a friend invite or friendly PM. So it was a win-win situation for both of us.

In cases that I didn't reply (or replied briefly enough to convey disinterest) I was never hassled further.

So I think a general hello would be fine but an outright invitation to make an appointment may seem a bit forward (even though we all know a hello is subtle way of advertising! But then again, thats what I'm on this site for!).

However, being txted by a girl I don't know would be an absolute no!no! . I'd be paranoid as to where she'd gotten my number!

[TheCelticDream]

like i said before...nothing wrong with a bit of shameless self promotion.

[Morpheus]

I just dont see it at all in that way! The fact that an escort advertises herself in effect means that she is issuing an invitation anyway to the general public and unless there is a major problem,she is likely to proceed with a booking with whoever turns up at the door. Now if I were her, I would far prefer to have a greater say in who turns up.

Some time ago I received a pm, out of the blue, from one of the most beautiful and successful ladies on this site. I am sure she had no great reason to contact me other than she had formed the view that I was generally the type of client that suited her. I thought more of her, not less of her -- there was nothing 'personal ' in her approach -- it was just good business and I respect her fully for that.

I think I was the recepient of a friendly PM by the same girl. To be honest, she wasnt' even on my radar before then. And it led to a lovely encounter with her subsequently after we'd exhanged PM's and also had some banter on the boards!

And being male, it really stroked my ego , knowing that she'd read my posts and read my profile. Silly I know, but ladies - don't underrate the male ego!

[Johnson]

I see no issue with being approached on PM by an escort. This is a business and it is simply another form of advertising. We are so spoiled for choice with many many amazing ladies. Any little extra can make the difference when deciding when making an apt.

If you don't appreciate being contacted direct, simply delete the message.

[mellors]

Apart from LC bombarding my inbox with the hard sale, I have had a few PMs just saying hi, which has led me to meet a few ladies who perhaps would have slipped under the radar. Also had a few hi ones saying they were going to be in town on certain dates, no pressure applied, just info for me to take on board.

[Sam Spade]

It depends very much on how the initial contact is made and the way the invitation is phrased.

I have no problem and would welcome a PM from a lady informing me when she will be touring my area.
I don't think the lady has to suggest a booking, but informing possible clients of her impending visit would be useful in allowing the client to plan the weeks events.

I enjoy meeting people and provided the PM is made by an independent rather than an agency, the contact would then always be welcome.

So ladies, please feel free to PM me anytime with your upcoming tours.

[Lucy Chambers]

Some do .....

Ambiguity is the enemy of truth and the shield of stupidity.

Apart from LC bombarding my inbox with the hard sale, I have had a few PMs just saying hi, which has led me to meet a few ladies who perhaps would have slipped under the radar. Also had a few hi ones saying they were going to be in town on certain dates, no pressure applied, just info for me to take on board.

Yup, I am sure

I do not agree with it. I am not sure what many of you like in an escort, but I am quite sure that I am visible enough to approach if I fit your criteria. It is good marketing for some, I am sure. Seems more like begging to me though.