Good conversation and intelligence is super sexy.. Just sayin'
Good conversation and intelligence is super sexy.. Just sayin'
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I've met escort university lecturers, lawyers, PhD students, musicians, accountants, medical students, etc. I don't think any of them were advertising as such. It would probably scare a lot of people off if they did.
I've also met a number of ladies who, for financial or other reasons, didn't have very much formal education, but were clearly very intelligent.
Most independent escorts are probably average, or slightly above, but language difficulties sometimes make it difficult to tell.
I've never knowingly met another client, but my impression from the boards is that escorts are, on average, brighter than their clients. You probably already figured that out from this thread, but a Saturday night after a match is probably not the ideal time to look for intelligent responses.
You aren't going to have much time to chat if you book a 30 minute appointment. Go for an hour, at least. 90 minutes or two hours is better.
You can get a good impression from the boards or from chat of how someone will be to talk to in person, but keep in mind that some ladies may turn out to be lost without Google Translate, and some of the most intelligent ladies I've met avoid the public forums or chat room entirely.
Escorts will generally want to keep their escort and other lives fairly separate. So if you do meet "someone with a PhD in astrophysics or a published literary critic" she may not want to talk about gamma ray bursts or deconstructionism. It's probably better to find some neutral topic in most cases.
If you can speak one or more other languages well enough to converse painlessly then you will probably find some escorts are a lot more interesting to talk to in their own language. But that can be tricky for a number of reasons. The nationalities and languages listed on profiles are often wrong, for privacy or other reasons. If you try to book in a lady's native language she will probably hang up on you, because the last thing she wants is to meet someone from home.
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I hate to admit that I'm initially turned on purely by the girl's looks. After that once I settle into the encounter, what turns me on would be the impression that she is trying to please me (this inculdes being nice, sweet, etc..). And then the icing on the cake would be cuddles and chat. Chat obviously depends on the girl's personality, commmand of English and sense of humour. (I always book for an hour so theres time for chat).
All the girls I've been with have been more than intelligent enough for me. But that doesn't mean the experiences have been all equally satisfying. So I would rate a friendly, chatty personality higher than intelligence per se.
I hope I'm not misintepreted in the above comments. I don't particularly want to spend my time debating world politics with a girl during our appointment. I save that for the boards.
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