You people seem to be a fairly well read bunch, so I'm going to throw this out there. As much as I enjoy the physicality of sex, I have always gotten off more on a girls personality. She has to be smart, funny and original. Obviously it helps if she looks good, but as far as I'm concerned thats secondary. I'm not talking about someone with a PhD in astrophysics or a published literary critic, just someone who stands out. What say you?