Have you ever?

[Franken996]

FWIW, I'm a member of a similar forum here in US.. & am aware of at least three marriages in last few years that resulted in a similar genesis- all going strong- although will concede the ladies stayed in the game in two cases....If you have another job- why not?
Go with your heart & good luck!!

[Morpheus]

oh no, i wouldnt be finacially dependent, as i have a professional day job, but he wants me all to himself, but i love doing what i do. thats the problem i really enjoy this too much lol xx

Not an easy one Sam. But I would be of the opinion that he has to take you as you are. Afterall he knew right away from the start about the escorting part of your life. Given that you really love what you do, it will be cutting out a chunk of who you are.

I would agree with robijntje - that you should quit only when you've decided to do so for yourself.

I can see your fellas perspective but at the end of the day, you can only change so much for someone you love - before losing your identity altogether.

(You should watch series 2 of secret diary of a call girl. Its the exact same scenario)

[Forrest]

oh no, i wouldnt be finacially dependent, as i have a professional day job, but he wants me all to himself, but i love doing what i do. thats the problem i really enjoy this too much lol xx

If you were true and honest in your op that you have fallen in love and can imagine a future with this guy and he obviously feels the same, then you both have to compromise. You have continued to work as a part time escort since your relationship with the guy started and he was 'fine' with that. Now maybe you have to try things his way for a while and see if the relationship with him alone is enough for you. I don't know if I could be in a relationship with a lady who continued working as an escort, as I have never been in your situation. But if you both really love each other then you have to give the relationship a chance and see what happens. Trust is a two way street. He knows your past and you know his. Can love conquer all?

[T_Tronic]

trust is something you have to build..

[BIGTYM2010]

As far as trust as two adults you guys would need to realise ok we've been with other people let's settle down if you have a day job then maybe its time to move on from escorting. Make sure this guy is serious about it too don't give up everything for him to walk away or even more be out with other escorts and then maybe falling in love with one of them yano,either way I hope it works out for you and most importantly your happy

[Devil_Angel]

is that ok for you???.this is a job for me,but anyway....till now i didn't find the right one...lol

[john connor]

you met in a fantasy environment, the real world with bills commitments adds a little pressure.
i doubt he would be mad about you seeing clients if you were a couple.
i think you need the wisdom of solomen to know how this will turn out.
best of luck but i think you need to have a major chat with him and be sure you are both on the same hymn sheet

[lucifersam]

""A question for both the lovely ladies and gents on here. I met and fell in love with a client 18 months ago, he has no money no big sports car, a modest sex life but I love him. He now wants me to stop working and be with only him. Do i or dont i? The money doesnt matter, he treats me tenderly and I could imagine a future with him, but would it always be in the back of your mind do you trust him and can he trust me? Who else has had this happen. I am not a young girlie with dreams or pretty woman lol. Lets see how honest you all are lol xx""

Well where do I begin, a hierarchy of needs question. what are your current needs and are they likely to change in the short, mid or long term future. It is not unusual for anyone to change once they enter a relationship - despite what we like to believe once we enter a loving relationship we are only too happy to change. Once we are engaged in a loving relationship almost everything changes and one of the things that changes is how we prioritise our own lives and how they interact with our new partner. Your priority so far, it seems, has been to have fun escorting above that of having a relationship. Will this always be your prioity? if not, when is that likely to change, is it in near future, midterm future or do you plan to change this priority when u collect the buspass. if you accept that you will at some point have different needs, then it is only a matter of time before you change. If you met someone interesting, it might just be worthwhile reviewing your current and future needs and determine if a change is possible, in fact this maybe just a catalyst to you changing your priorities.

One other point, missed opportunities often become regrets later in life and as someone else noted "we all deserve a chance to be happy"