right to say no ?

[Pinkeye]

Never been turned away..but it's fair enough if she doesn't feel right about you (in my opinion). The safety and happiness of everyone should always be the main consideration.

[Jasmin]

It has never happened to me and to be honest I don't know if I would stand by a van so the escort could get a good look at me. I am totally aware that some girls may do this for security reasons and I can't blame them, if you are not happy seeing someone then you shouldn't, your personal well being is what is important, not an unhappy punter or a bad review. The reason I don't think I would do it is that I value my anonymity just like the girls value theres and no never know what may be happening, photos etc. I know I sound paranoid but that's just me.

I don't know if you visit escorts at all but be aware that unless the escort's apartment is not facing the street, she will be "watching" you while she talks to you. The difference is that it seems that some girls tell the clients where to stand for them to be seen and others (like me) wouldn't say anything but certainly would be looking at you through the windows.

My safety comes first than anything else. Escorts do value their anonymity, I for one don't show my pics on the web site, however, when i open the door to a client, from that moment he knows who I am (even if he leaves before any service provided), if he sees me on street he will recognise me, I need to trust that he will not expose me if we ever meet outside my place and clients need to trust that the escort will respect his privacy also.

About refusing someone by their looks. An escort is not looking for relationship, so if the client is not her "type" it is not really important.

[anitasizzle]

I was with an escort last year in d.18.when i got to apartment she told me to stand beside a van in car park so she could look out her window and see what i look like,thankfully she let me in,my question is first for the clients,have you ever being told that she wont see you and were giving a reason why and secondly for the ladies if a guy makes a booking has made time to see you`s why would you turn him away,interested to hear your comments.

You should have told that b**ch to f**k off, me bad, I know, but who gives a FUCK!

[DaveD]

The majority of appointments I've been to have been in appt blocks where no way they could see me before I was outside the door. What happens then ?or do you not buzz guys through unless your 100% sure ?

Do you not think her friend had you under observation long before you pressed that button?

[Blond chick NIKKY]

I was with an escort last year in d.18.when i got to apartment she told me to stand beside a van in car park so she could look out her window and see what i look like,thankfully she let me in,my question is first for the clients,have you ever being told that she wont see you and were giving a reason why and secondly for the ladies if a guy makes a booking has made time to see you`s why would you turn him away,interested to hear your comments.

Strange... I always look in peephole in my door. Just for my safety. And honestly i dont mind how my client look. Main is how he treat me and how he talk to me over the phone. I am never curious how he will look or so... Thats silly,childish and not professional.

[Rodney69]

I know the majority of escorts will not turn away a client based on their looks, because I haven't been turned away yet

But seriously, honestly now, no names of course, have you ever talked to someone on the phone and thought he sounded OK etc, and then when you saw him from the window or peep hole, what you saw was just so frightening you had to turn him away. There was no way you could go through an appointment. It must happen now and again?

[Blond chick NIKKY]

I know the majority of escorts will not turn away a client based on their looks, because I haven't been turned away yet

But seriously, honestly now, no names of course, have you ever talked to someone on the phone and thought he sounded OK etc, and then when you saw him from the window or peep hole, what you saw was just so frightening you had to turn him away. There was no way you could go through an appointment. It must happen now and again?

Nope. Never happen to me. Just if he refuse shower or use mouthwash and he is dirty or smelly or have long beard and will want kiss or lick me,i wont be confi.. so i better say sorry but i cant... But i never been rude or anything like that. Always open the door and say it face to face. But honestly not sooo many times i did that.

[davedrave]

You should have told that b**ch to f**k off, me bad, I know, but who gives a FUCK!

was way to horny to walk away,if she had ask`d me to moon walk around the car park naked i would have

[davedrave]

its not only about how do u look like.. its safety reasons.. You people dont realise how dangerous this job can be over here...
So many times there is more then one person comming into the building,carrying a weapon in the bin bags etc...

very true ingrid.we only hear all the good things on this site never really talk about the danger of being an escort,

[mature abby]

That's fair enough James but you can no more tell if someone is actually a pyscho (unless he happens to be carrying an axe) by looking at them from a window than you can tell their nationality.

if they have a bag the next question is whats in the bag ?