they never show up

[medicine man]

Affraid thats true, it happens in other business aswell, in my case time and petrol wasted. It's incredibly rude and annoying,must be worse for you girls though if it's happening regularly

You're right happens to me also, although rarely, thank goodness!
I would get seriously pissed off to be treated in this way with such regularity.
I mean how difficult is it, a call to say I am delayed or can't make it,
after all thats what Motorola invented the mobile phone for!
Angers me! I am angry for you ladies, but I am more than convinced one of us will re-establish
your faith in us very shortly

[ciara69]

sorry, this has nothing to do with the your discussion,anyway is good u know.
make me angry when the clients call me and ask me how much it is!!!

i was telling to a client that i am angry with another ones that they call me asking something that they can clearly see.
he said for me ,¨don´t worry i know how it is .i am working in a big shop and we sell everything for 50€,we have a big board above the shop where put everything at 50 €,and we get more then 100 clients asking how much the products cost!!!¨

[Morpheus]

what is wrong with you people?what is the point to book an appointment but you never show up?...happen this thing to me few times...is unacceptable...i personal prefer people who keep the word...if you can't make it just give a notice...call or text...

I am sorry Diannxxx. This seems to be a recurring theme and ruins things for good clients as well. In my defence I always keep my appointments and am always punctual. However,as a result of the above wasters, I too find it hard to make appointments in advance when seeing an escort for the first time.

I wonder if you should have a parallel section to you 'ugly mugs' forum? How about a 'nice and punctual mugs' section??

I don't think it will work, but it would be nice to have something like that don't you think?

[Shirley Joy]

Sorry to hear you've been messed around like this....not on.

I have had to cancel at short notice but would always ring or text....just manners really.

I'm a very bad mannered lol

[Sam Spade]

There will always be a group who have no intention to keep their appointment.
Their only aim is to ring the escort, talk about favourites offered, what sexy items they want worn, and after they gratify themselves ring off with the appointment time made.

Before you ask, no I have never had to go into detail on the phone.
The only question I have to ask is if the lady if available at a certain time, as I have never had a problem where the favourites listed were not available.

The time wasters do affect the genuine clients and escorts alike, and until we can come up with a solution, this trend will unfortunately continue.

[Blond chick NIKKY]

The same story all the time... Somebody just come in and walk away,somebody just make app and never show up,somebody just call for info but never wanna app. But also some girls are afraid that happens to them so they make double bookings...

[warmcome]

if an escort could descretely record a timewaster incident with E-I,
a database of TW's could be compiled, an escort could check that
number and an escort could avoid that TW. not foolproof, but i can imagine
how frustrating this timewasting behaviour could be for anybody.

[Banjo]

Forrest's signature comes to mind. Sometimes you're the statue and sometimes you're the pigeon.

It's a fact of life that sometimes you're disappointed and sometimes you disappoint. And that applies to both escorts and punters. Maybe escorts should form a union and adopt a Ryanair approach. They double book all the time in anticipation that some passengers don't show up. Unfortunately on occasion all passengers do show up and they get shafted. Of course the difference is that Ryanair already has your money since the time of booking.

So how about at the time if booking the punter has to send a certain amount of phone credit to the escort as a deposit ? Say €50 with the balance paid in cash at the appointment. That would probably eliminate a lot of time wasters and at the very least it compensates the escort for time wasted. BUT - I could only see that working if the girls promise not to double book.

Actually I think this measure would bring a lot of trust into the system as well. The bad clients who don't show and the bad girls who double book would be left to their own devices. Meanwhile the good clients and escorts develop a better relationship.

Just a thought.

[Experienced Punter esq]

Basic common courtesy is just not as common as it should be

thats just it notice how many people say please & thank u these days in pubs restaurants etc
too many fellas ringing escorts simply to pull their wire while talking to them on the phone...

[EnglishAlex]

It's a right pain in the backside when this happens. It can take ages to get ready for an appointment: getting a bath/shower, organising clothing, applying make up, making sure everything is ready and organised. When a time waster doesn't show up after all this fussing about is very disappointing to say the least.
However I don't condone double booking - EVER. It leads to trouble that I'd rather avoid. Having someone drive all the way to come and spent time with an escort then she doesn't answer the phone or keeps them hanging around is unacceptable. Most clients are nice people and it's just bloody mean to keep them waiting. And very unprofessional too. As one lady said to me recently, we have to take the bad with the good. I rely on my instincts and to be honest that mostly stands me in good stead. Of course one or two idiots slip through the net but that's par for the course.

There are always going to be wankers around who dont turn up/ask stupid questions/try and negotiate rates (!) / refuse to get washed or many of the other issues escorts have to deal with but then a wonderful gent will call to make an appointment, turn up on time, take a shower (without being coerced) and has great manners. This restores my faith.

Banjo I think your suggestion would only be good in theory. In practice, I don't need/want loads of phone credit. Money talks, billshit walks in this profession.

Manners: I've posted about this before. I've worked in different towns/cities but I'm fairly new to Ireland so still finding the lack of basic manners here shocking. Not everybody of course but a great deal of the people I speak to are somewhat lacking in this department. Manners are about respect, for yourself and other people. If someone doesn't say please or thank you when i'm being served I don't hesitate to remind them. I just ask - is there anything missing from that sentence? Like a school teacher asking a 5 year old really. The looks of discomfort when you point out the lack of such a basic skill is quite amusing. I ask the question with a smile of course