Enough already !

[oneeyedreilly]

You've had some great advice already. I have been there myself and for me the important thing is to realise that if it's over, it's over. No point in trying to chase a dead cause. After that, the main thing is to try and keep everything on a civil basis. It's hard enough to deal with the situation if you can talk to each other but no communication just makes life difficult and more expensive. It's cheaper tp sort out as much as you can together than make the solicitors richer. All that aside, there is life afterwards and things can only get better. In hindsight, it was the best thing that could have happened for me.