would you

[mellors]

yea i take your point man, but i wud prefer to know, honestly; for a few reasons, health, trust etc, and i have dated escorts, & its not all cake and ice cream i ll tell you; i just dont publicise it like HL/R!!!

Must admit I'd find it difficult

[Morpheus]

by braver morph you mean more foolish right?!!!

No I do mean braver. I like the idea of honesty in a relationship but this is one area that I will never, never divulge. Likewise should I ever cheat or have an affair on a girlfriend/wife - I won't ever tell (assuming the affairs ends). Seen and heard too many stories - where all that the revelation does is to hurt the offended partner and it never seems to end well.

While it sounds fickle, I do believe that "what she doesn't know, won't hurt her." Just make sure she never finds out!!!

thanks lads
last time we were out and we had a lot to drink and we were at the stage of opening up it was getting to 50/50 whether i was gonna tell her, i changed the subject but it was a close one, bloody glad now!!
gotta slow down the pints next time and go slap some sense into myself

Ohh..!! Watch the alcohol man! SO often what seems a great idea under the influence - is blantantly ridiculous in the cold light of the morning after!

Not unless I was HL going out with Sweet Rachel (I like to be topical)

I don't think it would make a difference if she was an escort - havent' you seen "secret diary of a London call girl"? She (Belle) destroyed the life of her then boyfriend, when she found out he was sleeping with escorts.

Of course if you met during an appointment, then its all out in the open! Happy days!

[El Gordo]

would you ever tell your new girlfriend that you had availed of the services of the lovelies here, before you met her.....

Would you want her to tell you about everyone she had shagged? Probably not. So why tell her who you have shagged?