Quote Originally Posted by claudia xox View Post
hi westside, its me claudia...
i love the topic you mentioned up above... its a very good one..
ok well heres my side of it.. im a escort, and have meet a few very nice men..

but why are you puting it down to us being the problem as in being the escort?
its a job.. and most of us treat it as a job.. ok its not the nicest job in the world...
but it has to be done...

and lets just touch on the subject, that you have paid this girl....
what goes on in her head?
she's probably thinking ok im an escort but, heck he's after paying for sex with me, and know he's intrested in me... how many other escorts has he been with?
why does he pay for sex? and so whats the chip on his shoulder about me being an escort.. he of all people should be able to respect me to a certain degree..

in my opinion.. you should respect her.. dont try to be her saviour in disguise..
if you do get things going... let it be a very casual thing.. take her out.. and let her come back to you...let her know your intrested but play it VERY COOL..
You must also remember its her job dealing with the public.. and you know she could be like this with every man she has meet.. let her text/ring you if she really intrested you will soon know.
and if you really do get it off well toghter... then ask her to finish working... and then that hole line then works " well baby i think its time i supported you''.
im sorry i dont mean to sound harsh or rude.. but its my honest opinion.. ive also had a few relationships.. and at the end of the day.. it could be the worst thing you ever know... but you must remember DO NOT GET JEALOUS....that will make things much worse.. and at the end of the day she wants to be loved like the rest of us.... so she will save the best for you...
i hope it goes well..
thanks for the advice love but its just a general question for the lads here. I havnt met any escort. Its just a hypothetical situation.
Since you mentioned it, there is one escort i would go out with but i never see here and to be honest im not too pushed about searching. I agree with what you say, having being there....three times.
The best thing a guy that is interested in an escort could do is stop hanging around her at work and dont ,,dont call into her. the best thing to say is that "i dont call to you or do buisiness bescause i respect you too mcuh". Always works.
Funny you mention it. The escort has to move out of her role. Come to think of it a lot (loads of women) havnt a clue how to attract the man they ,let alone keep him. They get too stand offish, and say things that literally scare a guy off.They think they know but to be honest most are clueless.
Hey you sound sweet yourself hun. Take it easy.

Hugs and Kisses,
West.