If I may say !

[El Gordo]

I don't think I've ever been controversial on this forum and I hope this won't be but I'd like to say a few things and ask a few questions without being infracted or banned. First, why are we so bitchy on here ? Since I started posting here we've lost some great people, some banned (in my opinion for defending what they stood for and some deservedly), some self-inflicted (as they were being bullied and some as they felt they were). Exp, Esp, Jack, Maxi, etc, etc, why ? Are we not supposed to be some sort of friendship group ? Second, the whole HL, Rachel thing, why can we all not be just happy for them ? If it was me, would you all turn on me if I had reviewed the woman I had fallen in love with ? What if I stated right now I was in love with one of the girls, would you consider me wrong ? Should we not defend and support each other and the ladies ? If I said tomorrow that I'd left my wife for one of our ladies, would I get the support I'd give ye in that situation or would I be battered like HL ? Just a few things I needed to get off my chest, sorry !

Has anyone here ever criticised HL for his review of Rachel? If so, I didn't see it. If you've seen such a post then please provide a link.