wondering...

[Banjo]

is it healty to become friends and cross the policy line between a client and escort....some guys belive that escorts are feelingles,hartless... maybe...?what do you think about us.....lads....?...as for example i have many man visiting me on regular bases so i feel like i knew him all my life feel safe and can talk about everything.but is this healty? cant wait to see what you think about it?any storys?maybe relationships that you had or have with escorts....is it even posible....?

It's a grey area but will try to keep my opinion as black and white as possible
Yes - it's ok if both parties are unlikely to hurt anyone else in the process.

No - it's not to be encouraged if he is married for example and the potentially blossoming relationship may lead to something more with the consequence that an innocent third party gets hurt.

However, and here's my very own grey area, what's the difference between becoming close friends with an escort and becoming close friends with someone you met in a bar and just happens to be an escort ?

At the end of the day each individual person makes up their own mind on this. It's important to note however that if feelings DO develop between escort and client, I can't help but suspect that in the end it's the escort who will come off worse after he decides he's not going to see her any more because of the other family he's got at home.

The lesson here is that it's a word of caution to the escort just as much as to the client, if not even more so to the escort.

[mellors]

Have to agree with Doc, It obviously makes the experience a whole lot better if there's other interaction apart from sex, great if you can have a chat and a laugh together. But you have to keep it in perspective at the end of the day and that takes a certain maturity. All girls are of course are different, just as us guys are, some people you click with someyou don't, but personally I couldn't cross that line between 'freindship' and something else.

[D11111]

is it healty to become friends and cross the policy line between a client and escort....some guys belive that escorts are feelingles,hartless... maybe...?what do you think about us.....lads....?...as for example i have many man visiting me on regular bases so i feel like i knew him all my life feel safe and can talk about everything.but is this healty? cant wait to see what you think about it?any storys?maybe relationships that you had or have with escorts....is it even posible....?

Dont think there's any harm in that at all. Seems like a really nice, human thing to happen between two adults. There are probably loads of escorts around the world who have long term clients and have got to know them really well. Fair play to both parties if that happens.

[El Gordo]

There are a few escorts I consider friends. Escorts are people, like anyone else. There are some you would want as friends, and others you wouldn't. The same with clients, I guess.

[Lincoln]

A couple of girls I used to visit really regularly I would've considered that we had become really friendly, even exchanging a couple of non-punt related texts. When we were having an appointment we would have a very good talk about different things. Personally I would have been quite honoured if they considered me a friend.

That being said, when they finished working as escorts I never heard from them again (no big surprise there).

Personally I would have loved to have stayed in touch since I am not in a relationship but I suppose that is not too realistic.

But basically Denise I do not see why it would be such a terrible problem being friends if folks were enjoying a very steady punter/escort relationship...

Always remember we are human beings first and foremost