Listen lads I will let you all in on a little secret,to the ladies its purely a financial transaction and I say that with the greatest respect to the ladies.
Any man who thinks he is special or should get special treatment is seriously deluded.
Of course the service will/should be a bit better on return visits as
1) The lady knows she is not being visited by a maniac,
2)The lady if she can remember knows what the client likes and does it automatically without either the client or the lady saying it
I have had a lady that I visit regularly text me asking to re arrange a visit as she is very busy that day and wants to give me her "undivided attention."
Now I know the real reason is that I visit twice a month and the lady does not want to lose that business,if the visit is not as good as I would like, not because I am special.