Dilemma

[mellors]

I sort of know the feeling Mellors. Am in a similar situation right now. Wondering do I/don't I go back? Case in point - have left on most occasions walking on air, but have on two occasions left feeling really frustrated .

I think the decision unfortunately will depend on how horny I am on the day. My head tells me to move on, but on a given day my small head will tell me otherwise. It all honesty, it will also come down to who else is available or not available on the day. (Unfortunately time and money come in to it - limiting the number of escort visits I can make - so have to choose carefully).

After all that waffle, I am probably going to go back (and you'll hear about it if I'm kicking myself). At the end of the day Mellors the question you have to ask youself is - " How hot is she??" And if the answer is 'hell fire'!! - then she's definitely worth the risk of revisiting.

Did I mention she has a gorgeous pussy !! I'm the same Morpheus, trying to limit myself but there's always another beautiful girl 'coming soon'. It's a tough choice

[anitasizzle]

First time I saw this particular girl it was a fantastic experience, so the next time she was in town I saw her again, also a great experience, great body,very chatty and friendly and the cutest pussy you ever did see, definitely becoming a my must see regular when she's in town.However, the third time I saw her (this was over a few months) it was a totally different experience, I felt rushed, no connection, basically in and out the door as quickly as possible. I know that I'm not 'special' to any of the girls but it really put me off seeing her again Now I know girls have bad days and busy days, but my dilemma is now that my visits to escorts have become less,more like a special occasion rather than a more regular affair, should I risk seeing her again next time shes in town or carry on exploring fresh pastures ?

Time to move on, and get a girlfriend if you're looking for that same 'special' experience over and over again; I, myself, don't like seeing clients more than two or three times because I know that they want that 'special' experience over and over again, and that 'special' experience is usually reserved for 'special' people in my life, and having to be reminded that that person whom I'm having sex with isn't that 'special' person is taxing on my emotions.

[mellors]

Time to move on, and get a girlfriend if you're looking for that same 'special' experience over and over again; I, myself, don't like seeing clients more than two or three times because I know that they want that 'special' experience over and over again, and that 'special' experience is usually reserved for 'special' people in my life, and having to be reminded that that person whom I'm having sex with isn't that 'special' person is taxing on my emotions.

Perhaps I didn't explain myself properly, I wasn't expecting to be 'special' with any escort, I was commenting on the difference between the first two appts and the third. Last thing I want is a girlfriend.

[mature abby]

Actually I take back what I said Mellors... feck her... go out and find a new piece of ass and start all over... Gowan ya good ting...

lol james i really liked your first post lol

[nick2010]

I do advice my clients to see as much girls as they wish, because I know man like variety, but they always end up coming back to the "special" ones they liked the most. When you meet few different escorts and back to the one you clicked with after while, never become boring ... ;-) xxx

[Bruno69]

Perhaps I didn't explain myself properly, I wasn't expecting to be 'special' with any escort, I was commenting on the difference between the first two appts and the third. Last thing I want is a girlfriend.

I have often found a 2nd appointment is sexually the best. You are over any awkwardness of meeting someone you don't know, you are prepared better for that person and you may be more adventurous 2nd time around and yet you still have the thrill of finding someone new.

I have had special regulars where the relationship meant each subsequent visit was still amazing, but I've met a few where the 3rd meet was not up to the 2nd.

I'd move on.

[mellors]

I have often found a 2nd appointment is sexually the best. You are over any awkwardness of meeting someone you don't know, you are prepared better for that person and you may be more adventurous 2nd time around and yet you still have the thrill of finding someone new.

I have had special regulars where the relationship meant each subsequent visit was still amazing, but I've met a few where the 3rd meet was not up to the 2nd.

I'd move on.

Yeah, perhaps were taken for granted a bit on subsequent occasions

[Bruno69]

Yeah, perhaps were taken for granted a bit on subsequent occasions

That's not what I mean. I think it's more of a natural occurrence to be honest. I was emailing an ex girlfriend yesterday and we were reminiscing about some happy memories and we both agreed that the 2nd time we were together, the sex was explosive and after that never reached the same peak.

[Monkeynut]

We all end up having one or two special ladies but in many cases we are not special. Sometimes we are and it can be great but like Nick says most ladies will encourage you to see other ladies as well to avoid the exact situation you find yourself in. Escorts like having special regulars but not too special ..... that can cause heartbreak on either side!

You will see me refer to the 80/20 rule elsewhere but if you think about it, all escorts will tell you that with 80% of their clients there will be no connection at all and 20% of there clients they will like. 20% of that 20% will be special to the lady and then only 20% of that 20% (which is quite small) will there will be a special relationship. Every escort will tell you - if you ask - that they have met someone that they really like through their work. Is that person you in this case?

[JAMESCORK]

Time to move on, and get a girlfriend if you're looking for that same 'special' experience over and over again; I, myself, don't like seeing clients more than two or three times because I know that they want that 'special' experience over and over again, and that 'special' experience is usually reserved for 'special' people in my life, and having to be reminded that that person whom I'm having sex with isn't that 'special' person is taxing on my emotions.

I like this post Anita. And it would make one think...