When does this become obsessive?

[wanted the best 69]

thanks Mark, spot on. It's a bit like a drug. After a while if you do it too often, the buzz is not the same. But that level of buzz you're looking for will be different for everyone

i think it depends on what you are looking for, be honest ,escorts are like the sweet shop, pick what you like,or think you like,
escorts allow most punters expole their sexual dreams,or more, which many not be on offer at home,or other.

[sashaeve]

For me the obsession is not by the numbers of ladies, the case will be different depending on if single, divorced, married, or on serious relation or simply if u have the financial ability ect...

BUT what worry me it the time of some guys spend online knowing not only they cannot afford meeting as many as they wish and start getting obsessive or nasty to girls (fake booking, non sense pm, stupid txt ect...) For me they are to most to worry about because they don’t get out of their fantasy world.

For me the best clients are the mature married men, they are not looking for trouble and always think SAFETY FIRST, and don’t spend hours online like if they have nothing else to worry about.

[Mousey]

I only punt once every couple of months.

I am incredibly discerning about my female companions and only choose the absolute best.

Either that or I'm on the scratch.

[Forrest]

I would think that daily visits to an escort is excessive, but if you have no ties, and no financial restrictions, fair fu*ks to ya.

I used to visit 3-4 ladies per month when I started and I always did minimum 1hr appointments. That was within my budget.

It would be no more than 2 per month nowadays, and not every month. I have gotten over the 'kid in a sweetshop' phase and prefer quality rather than quantity now.

[JAMESCORK]

Deja vue here. I am at the stage that Mark offers up. I used to do a one hour and a half hour session every week. But it was strictly greed as my work takes me away from home and I had nothing better to do. But of late I have found that my expectations and standards have got so high that I have had dissapointing visits with top class girls. I am now trying out "absence makes the heart fonder" type of approach and am limiting my visits to maximize my enjoyment. I am now seeing one a week and it's not really working. I have stopped reviewing all I see. I now only review the good and the very bad. I admit this, conscious that I maybe leaving the side down review wise, but I am also conscious of unnecessarily damaging a girls career just cos I am sooo choosey. I do consider even one a week to be excessive

[randykman]

I personally try to limit myself to one visit per month, and with some success too may I add. For example; within the last year I have made 7 visits to escorts.

I however may be in a different position in life to the majority of clients. Being at the younger end of the client age spectrum, I do not have the financial recourses to be a regular punter, 2 per month would be my financial limit.

My age also means that I probably find it much easier to get laid than the average punter, and I tend to have short term relationships as opposed to being married, in a long term relatonship or long term single. Thus I'm not relying on escorts for my sexual gratification or variety.

In my position I would consider any more than 2 visits a month to be a problem.

[warmcome]

when i used to frequent Amsterdam, during
the visit it would be each day, pretty hard work...

[OnlyMe]

I've changed lately. Now like to see familar faces. I tend not to see new people anymore, no idea really why?
Think I like the fimiliarity, the knowing where to park (important) and knowing what I'm getting.

[Rodney69]

I've changed lately. Now like to see familar faces. I tend not to see new people anymore, no idea really why?
Think I like the fimiliarity, the knowing where to park (important) and knowing what I'm getting.

that's one way of putting it :-)

[dave1dave]

As duration of appointments has come up.
What I have found myself doing lately is going for a shorter appointment for the first time.
I'm kind of working with the whole idea of " I'd rather leave wanting more that being there and wanting to leave."
For me it allows me to see new people and spend longer with the ones that I click with.