requesting reviews!!

[Morpheus]

two customers in the last two days said they where asked to leave reviews!! one actually only signed up because he was specifically asked to, and the other said he was fairly friendy with an escort and she asked him to leave her two friends reviews !!!!!
is this normal , i would never dream of ASKING for one, either he doesnt or u get a pleasent surprise and he does!!!

look forward to reading ur opinions on this matter lads n ladies xxx

Thanks for the thread Ciara.

I think there's a balance to this. Escorts shouldn't demand reviews and should never ask for a review to be left for another girl.

However, putting myself in a lady's shoes - if she's been told by a client how wonderful she was etc... then I think it might be ok for her to suggest that he put those compliments down in a review.

Thats actually how I started reviewing. I was seeing this lovely gorgeous young lady (mmm..getting distracted now...) - and I was telling how I was she had great reviews and that it influenced my choice in seeing her. She then casually mentioned that she hadn't had a review in awhile and I would be welcome to leave one. It was all very nonchalant and I didn't feel I was under any pressure to do so. I explained that I wasn't registered with E-I and hadn't been planning to leave reviews. She was nonplussed and very pleasant throughout inspite of what I'd said. However, after going home, I had a think about it and came to the conclusions that I still hold to (ie. that I really should leave a review everytime I see a new lady). I signed up the next day and left her a review.

I think in the ideal world, clients would all be gentleman and leave reviews. And escorts would all be ladies and not have to ask for one. Having said the world we live in is far from ideal, and this industry even worse!

As for you my darling Ciara - you never need to ask for a review. Your whole being demands that any guy in his right senses, who's had the privilege, wont be able to stop talking about you (and hence be unable to stop writing you a review).

[Rodney69]

From my experience I don't think it happens that often. I've only been asked to leave a review once. And I did, but I was going to anyway. I don't think an escort should ask though

Sometimes it is hard to avoid, but to be honest I hate when the discussion about reviews comes up during an appointment. I don't think a client should really mention it either, certainly not at the start anyway.


And likewise just as it is not right for escorts to ask for reviews, I don't think a client should ask for references either. If and when you get them, then they should be a surprise, appreciated and accepted gratefully

[dave1dave]

I've been asked if I was going to leave a review a few times. I'm not sure how I feel about it, a little uncomfortable but it all depends on how it's done.
The " So baby are you going to leave me a good review ?? " and then waiting for an answer. Is not a good idea in my opinion.

But at the end of an appointment if the escort just says " Don't forget to leave a review, if you want to. " Does no harm.

[Amy Alison]

Guys, please don’t generalise. It’s perfectly fine not to ask for reviews and also perfectly fine if you do it in a nice and dignified way, more like a friendly informational chat, not as a demand or a cheeky request to get a positive one.

On one hand, you would like more guys to review. Are you aware that most of those guys would not do it unless someone takes the initiative to bring in discussion reviews?

There are a few nice reviewers on this site that have registered because I asked them to. There are others that did it because some other escorts nicely brought this into discussion. Any other escort that they have subsequently seen benefited of the innocent suggestion done by the first escort. I see it as a win-win situation.

[Jrice]

I haven't been asked to leave a review but I agree with some of the posts above that it's important to leave them especially if you make your own decisions on which girl to call from reading the reviews.
I haven't left a review on a couple of occasions because we didn't 'click' & it wasn't really the girls fault so while I couldn't call the experience good, it wouldn't have seemed fault to leave a negative review.
I only left one negative review but it was because the experience was SO appalling although I realised after that some of the girls found it a bit off putting so I wouldn't leave something that explicit again.

[Rodney69]

Guys, please don’t generalise. It’s perfectly fine not to ask for reviews and also perfectly fine if you do it in a nice and dignified way, more like a friendly informational chat, not as a demand or a cheeky request to get a positive one.

On one hand, you would like more guys to review. Are you aware that most of those guys would not do it unless someone takes the initiative to bring in discussion reviews?

There are a few nice reviewers on this site that have registered because I asked them to. There are others that did it because some other escorts nicely brought this into discussion. Any other escort that they have subsequently seen benefited of the innocent suggestion done by the first escort. I see it as a win-win situation.

Fair points Amy, but it's all down to how the conversation is approached. If it is dignified and at the end then yes I've no problem with that. But if it comes up at the start it is wrong.

Also for those that use the reviews to help make their choice, they should also post reviews to help others

[Morpheus]

Guys, please don’t generalise. It’s perfectly fine not to ask for reviews and also perfectly fine if you do it in a nice and dignified way, more like a friendly informational chat, not as a demand or a cheeky request to get a positive one.

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Thank you Amy. I agree completely. You have summarised it perfectly (better than my waffle above - which was intended to convey the same message!).

Its all in the manner of asking. And men being men, we do need prompting from time to time (or always!).

[Blonde Alexa]

two customers in the last two days said they where asked to leave reviews!! one actually only signed up because he was specifically asked to, and the other said he was fairly friendy with an escort and she asked him to leave her two friends reviews !!!!!
is this normal , i would never dream of ASKING for one, either he doesnt or u get a pleasent surprise and he does!!!

look forward to reading ur opinions on this matter lads n ladies xxx

A stupid and emberassing thing to do..how can you ask someone to leave you a review, if the guys are feeling that they have something to say about you and to share that with the others...will do that anyway..but to ask someone to do that..and after all what is the purpose for this...those girls have to be very desperate..OMG

[takemedrunkimhome]

two customers in the last two days said they where asked to leave reviews!! one actually only signed up because he was specifically asked to, and the other said he was fairly friendy with an escort and she asked him to leave her two friends reviews !!!!!
is this normal , i would never dream of ASKING for one, either he doesnt or u get a pleasent surprise and he does!!!

look forward to reading ur opinions on this matter lads n ladies xxx

I dont usually get involved in these discussions much but just saw the topic and it jogged a memory in me.

Over a year ago(long before I becae a TR) I was asked to leave a review by a lady on this site.
She asked me while I was with her in the hotel room, but I was really busy at work and forgot to leave it for a few days.
I then got a text asking did I really have a good time with her and if I did could I leave the review.
This was followed later by a pm(if not 2, I cant remember) asking me to leave a review.

At this point I felt a bit harassed and to make a long story short I never left the lady a review.
What is a real pity was that I had a great time with her and of I was left alone I am sure I would have left her a glowing review in a week or two or whenever I got the chance.

Was I being petty here? I always wondered if I was out of line not just writing the lady a review, but I just felt a bit under pressure to do it.

[Victor Mature]

Hi

You should NEVER feel pressured into leaving a review!! Anyone that does this has very little respect for the client and may actually be compromising him!!

This is a loaded subject. I have been asked a few times to leave a review - in one case I had already done it! In other cases, I decide. I don't review them all and I NEVER give exact details on the appointment (including time and day) or make it too specific, for my personal protection.

I've no doubt that some escorts are very focused on their reviews. Why? Professional pride, a great way to attract business, more chance of meeting TRs who are generally a better class of client I'd say, and good advertising for what to expect on a visit.

I notice some escorts have over a hundred reviews and while they're obviously busy, I feel most of them MUST be asking clients for reviews.

I also notice that some escorts suddenly become popular on the Latest Reviews board, the latest example that springs to mind is Anny Mary, who also requested me as a Friend. Fair enough, I'm all for target marketing, but I hope all these reviews are genuine, they're all complimentary. I use this example as I won't be visiting Anny Mary as it happens, 'cos she doesn't do one or 2 things I usually ask for. We've discussed and she's cool with it - otherwise she seems like a lovely lady.

I'm actually getting a bit sceptical about the whole thing lately. There must be loads of punters getting good info. but not contributing themselves. I'm thinking of hanging up my boots (or punting equivalent!!) in more ways than one....

Vic