Can you ever get back with an ex?????

[charlottebabe]

Stella, you do make me laugh. How can it just be for sex for me? I can get it anywhere But i think it is just about sex for him. Like I said to him, what's in it for me?

[Stella]

Gosh seems im having my blonde moments excues me but i totally forget for a second that im on EI...just wanted to give some friendly advice..haha ok maybe its time for me to got bed now!!!!!

[Banjo]

Been there, done that, worn the tee-shirt.

It was crap. Ended worse than it did the first time. It's a mugs game.

Unfortunately however, no amount of rational thought or people telling me it would only end in tears made any difference ... I went ahead and did it anyway (see my disclaimer below about how I'm regulated).

[Morpheus]

I dunno, I think each situation is different. It also depends on why you broke up in the first place.

I have an ex that I still hold a flame for. However, we have different lives and could never get back together again. We are still friends believe it or not. (I know some believe this isn't possible). Probably because we didnt' break up due to relationship failure but due to family pressures and outside circumstances.

So, can one get back with an Ex? Totally depends on the given situation. I don't think we should say a definite no to this question. Having said that I am a sad incurable romantic!

[bhoywonder]

i hate when you break up with someone and some people are convinced that you will get back together, that it is just meant to be. jesus, it s over. deal with it! its happened a few times. especially when you have common friends. i know that they are only trying to be supportive but i really think its the wrong thing to say. i mean, if your the dumper then its like telling you that you made a mistake. and if youre the dumpee then may be provioding false hope.

then again, i always liked it when some girl you know started asking the question 'is there any chance of you 2 gettign back together?' might as well be walking round with a sign saying 'IM AVAILABLE!!!'

[Sam Spade]

If there is even a glimmer of hope that a relationship could work, then we should grasp the opportunity.
If it doesn't work out, then at least we have tried our best.

How would we feel in later years to ask the question 'what if?'

[emmasweet]

If is exboyfriend let to be ex wait until u discover right man.I know is not to many out here to mach but let's hope.

[aliciasexy]

I saw an ex boyfriend today who I have not seen for 6 months. He wants to get back together, although he went back to his wife after we broke up. I asked him what is in it for me? He left with a lot to think about. I wondered if anyone on here has got back with an ex and did it work out?

Yes...

if u love somebody you should get back him...

but if he´s married and he is now with he´s wife...but he want to stay with you I suggest let it GO...

[kelso]

it all depends on the 2 ppl involved imo

[Bobby24]

I dont understand the question "whats in it for me". If you even have to ask that question well then you obviously arent that into him it seems to me and you would be getting back for the wrong reasons.