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    Question Can you ever get back with an ex?????

    I saw an ex boyfriend today who I have not seen for 6 months. He wants to get back together, although he went back to his wife after we broke up. I asked him what is in it for me? He left with a lot to think about. I wondered if anyone on here has got back with an ex and did it work out?
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    Quote Originally Posted by charlottebabe View Post
    I saw an ex boyfriend today who I have not seen for 6 months. He wants to get back together, although he went back to his wife after we broke up. I asked him what is in it for me? He left with a lot to think about. I wondered if anyone on here has got back with an ex and did it work out?
    Walk darling and he is married tut tut.

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    It just happened with me once...but wasnt working at all!He is the one in my life that i go mad anytime, but something wrong between us!
    But i rather stay away from ex bf, friendship should be ok if there is frendship with an ex...?
    Good bye Ireland!

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlottebabe View Post
    I saw an ex boyfriend today who I have not seen for 6 months. He wants to get back together, although he went back to his wife after we broke up. I asked him what is in it for me? He left with a lot to think about. I wondered if anyone on here has got back with an ex and did it work out?
    No is the simple answer, it never works out, for me anyway.

    What tends to happen is people break up and after a while one starts to miss the other and tries to get back together, if they do get together again, things are better than ever for a while until the sparkle wears off and it's back to the way it was just before you broke up at that point you'll remember the reasons for the initial breakup and it starts again.

    Irish people tend to be very slow to leave go and seem to have a hard time accepting when things are over, so they keep wanting to come back which just prolongs the inevitable.

    Remember the reason you broke up in the first place......has anything really changed?

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    It just happened with me once...but wasnt working at all!He is the one in my life that i go mad anytime, but something wrong between us!
    But i rather stay away from ex bf, friendship should be ok if there is frendship with an ex...

    I know its tempting but he got back to his wife so maybe he just dont get quality sex...
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    Good bye Ireland!

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    I've never done it and I have never stayed "friends" with an ex either.

    When it's over it's over. No point flogging a dead horse.
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    Stella you are so right love. He gets no sex at home. He was good to me when we were togther but went back to his wife for all the usual reasons, too much money at stake and daughter not speaking to him etc etc. But now he is back I think he has realised why he left his wife in the first place (which was before we met). But from what he said he would not leave again. I told him why on earth would I want a boy friend who I could never see at night and at the weekends etc. I think may be we can be friends but I am not interested in him anymore.
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    No i would not Defo. But i cant say anymore cause i dont no why yous broke up in the first place and would be wrong of me to do so. What ever u deside .... best of luck xx

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    Did it once but didnt work out the second time either. We both realised it was working quite quickely second time round.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Stella View Post
    It just happened with me once...but wasnt working at all!He is the one in my life that i go mad anytime, but something wrong between us!
    But i rather stay away from ex bf, friendship should be ok if there is frendship with an ex...?
    But there is never friendship with an ex it always turns sour .

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