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    We've been married for nearly 6 years and I've been really aroused at the thought of my wife having sex with another man. Would love to be there when that happens to see her getting sexed by another male. Jokingly suggested to her that we could get an erotic massage by a male escort for her upcoming b'day - with the session ending in full sex - and surprisingly she agreed! She knows I would love to be there but deep down I know she'd rather be alone with the escort at the time so she can fully enjoy herself without any inhibitions, rather than putting on a show for me. Well I suggested firstly a private session with the escort and if she likes it then we can later have another one with me in the audience. We are both extremely excited about this and feel like discussing our sexual fantasies was the best thing we have done in many years. Her birthday is coming up in 8 weeks or so.
    Is this a dangerous road to go down will she always feel unsatisfied by me, and yearn for another man or will this save my marriage???
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ric Hardgear View Post
    We've been married for nearly 6 years and I've been really aroused at the thought of my wife having sex with another man. Would love to be there when that happens to see her getting sexed by another male. Jokingly suggested to her that we could get an erotic massage by a male escort for her upcoming b'day - with the session ending in full sex - and surprisingly she agreed! She knows I would love to be there but deep down I know she'd rather be alone with the escort at the time so she can fully enjoy herself without any inhibitions, rather than putting on a show for me. Well I suggested firstly a private session with the escort and if she likes it then we can later have another one with me in the audience. We are both extremely excited about this and feel like discussing our sexual fantasies was the best thing we have done in many years. Her birthday is coming up in 8 weeks or so.
    Is this a dangerous road to go down will she always feel unsatisfied by me, and yearn for another man or will this save my marriage???
    Why do you think your marriage needs to be saved
    If you are the one suggesting the male escort, and you are comfortable with it, then why not.
    It could work out that your wife will then reciprocate, and suggest you have female escort, while she watches(or joins in) Win, win for you then.
    I wish I had a wife like yours that was open to discussing sexual fantasies.
    Good luck with it anyway, Ric.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ric Hardgear View Post
    We've been married for nearly 6 years and I've been really aroused at the thought of my wife having sex with another man. Would love to be there when that happens to see her getting sexed by another male. Jokingly suggested to her that we could get an erotic massage by a male escort for her upcoming b'day - with the session ending in full sex - and surprisingly she agreed! She knows I would love to be there but deep down I know she'd rather be alone with the escort at the time so she can fully enjoy herself without any inhibitions, rather than putting on a show for me. Well I suggested firstly a private session with the escort and if she likes it then we can later have another one with me in the audience. We are both extremely excited about this and feel like discussing our sexual fantasies was the best thing we have done in many years. Her birthday is coming up in 8 weeks or so.
    Is this a dangerous road to go down will she always feel unsatisfied by me, and yearn for another man or will this save my marriage???
    As long as your marriage is strong mate it shouldn't be a problem BUT if your doing this because things have gone off the boil no way never.

    Instead of going along the male escort route try dipping your toe in the swinging scene for the first attempt. I'm quiet well known on the scene if you need any info PM me and I would be happy to help on venues etc. Or you could also contact VJ another well known swinger lol


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    I don't think any of us can answer that, we all heard the line it will never be the same and it always ends in disaster but in this day and age where to explore ones sExuality is normal I don't know.. If you have an I securities which I'll be honest it comes across that you do I think it would be difficult for you to handle if she did have too good a time, if anything I'd join in at least to ease yourself that it was both of you satisfying her?

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    i dont think the swinging scene is for me ..and this sounds harsh,and based on ignorance,but i have looked into this a bit re..various sites and the pics posted of the active members ,how can i say this without being cruel ,.well they are ugly and tend to be obese
    a thousand kisses deep..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ric Hardgear View Post
    i dont think the swinging scene is for me ..and this sounds harsh,and based on ignorance,but i have looked into this a bit re..various sites and the pics posted of the active members ,how can i say this without being cruel ,.well they are ugly and tend to be obese
    That's the T.V. and Newspaper view mate, you will find a lot of the ladies that advertise here are or were swingers besides one of the most prominent swingers is our very own Vampire Jackie and I wouldn't call her ugly!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Ric Hardgear View Post
    i dont think the swinging scene is for me ..and this sounds harsh,and based on ignorance,but i have looked into this a bit re..various sites and the pics posted of the active members ,how can i say this without being cruel ,.well they are ugly and tend to be obese
    I should fit in well there so.

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    I reckon it could be a bit dangerous but if the urge is there u should go for it or the urge will only grow , would u go to a swingers club ? Maybe abroad as I find if it doesn't work out when it happened abroad it's one if those things u pass off as a drunken Holliday adventure plus no chance of bumping into the 3rd party

    Hope that's of some help xxx

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    I would help you out of your prediciment RH, by offering my services, but alas, she would be 'spoiled' and no way back for you I'm affraid !
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    I'm a bit confused: you guys are having a frank discussion about a pretty radical sexual adventure and she appears to be genuinely interested in exploring this (which sounds pretty awesome I must say) and then you start going on about needing this to save your marriage, one dosent really seem to follow the other...I hope ya arent making this stuff up
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