References

[bigpaws]

Actually "hun" I knew exactly were your apartment was ............. you told me the general area on the phone and I PM'd another punter here who I knew had visited you and he gave me a "review" of you including your exact location.
We punters also look for references, we're just not so blatant about it sweetheart.
My point being your sense of security and safety are false .............. you are just not aware how vulnerable you really are and how little your safety measures actually protect you. Other escorts here know this and live with it in the hope they are lucky enough to only meet nice punters ........... if you have been safe up to this point Alyssa it is pure luck and nothing more whether you accept it or not.
I personally am disgusted when I read about a girl, escort or not, being attacked physically by a man and I sincerely hope your luck continues.

Paws

[damron]

Lads try not to reduce this to a "Them & Us " situation.I have met Alyssa and I can honestly say she is without doubt one of the nicest girls I have met.Sure I answered a few questions she asked me but what the heck.Boy was it worth it.Anybody who shuns Alyssa because of the few Q's she might ask you is cutting his nose off to spite his face as the saying goes.See the girl guys YOU WILL CHANGE YOUR MIND. Cheers Dam.

[Doom]

Lads try not to reduce this to a "Them & Us " situation.I have met Alyssa and I can honestly say she is without doubt one of the nicest girls I have met.Sure I answered a few questions she asked me but what the heck.Boy was it worth it.Anybody who shuns Alyssa because of the few Q's she might ask you is cutting his nose off to spite his face as the saying goes.See the girl guys YOU WILL CHANGE YOUR MIND. Cheers Dam.

Damron dont be a push over, dont stand for this shit. they want the money or they dont, stick their questions were the sun dont shine. As soon as any escort asks me questions on the phone im hanging up on her, what are they the police now with their questions. its a waste of time what they are doing people change numbers all the time so............ whats the point?

Safety.... cause he was ok to the escort before you, doesnt mean he will be the same to you, lot of things change like, his mood, could be on drugs, bad day, & get pissed with you for what ever reason & do a mad one.

[piggi]

I agree that this shouldn't become an us/them debate.

In our personal and professional lives we all take personal protection measures which others might find silly or inadequate. As has been stated, 'phone-vetting etc is no guarantee of safety. However, I suspect it makes some people feel safer - a bit like putting locks on your windows, it makes them hard to open, but windows are easily smashed if someone really wants to "get" you.

Personal safety is not about perfect protection (consider how many US presidents have been assasinated/shot, despite being surrounded by layers of security) it is about taking steps to reduce risk and making ourselves feel safer. That's all.

And if it makes an escort feel safer to seek references then what's the big deal?

If you don't want to play ball, just 'phone someone else!!

This is really a "how long is a piece of string" debate.

Silly.

[Doom]

I agree that this shouldn't become an us/them debate.

In our personal and professional lives we all take personal protection measures which others might find silly or inadequate. As has been stated, 'phone-vetting etc is no guarantee of safety. However, I suspect it makes some people feel safer - a bit like putting locks on your windows, it makes them hard to open, but windows are easily smashed if someone really wants to "get" you.

Personal safety is not about perfect protection (consider how many US presidents have been assasinated/shot, despite being surrounded by layers of security) it is about taking steps to reduce risk and making ourselves feel safer. That's all.

And if it makes an escort feel safer to seek references then what's the big deal?

If you don't want to play ball, just 'phone someone else!!

This is really a "how long is a piece of string" debate.

Silly.

Not silly, fuckin stupid. fuck this shit im finished with it, just gets worse

[funtimes]

It seems Doom and bigpaws are over reacting to the reference situation. If any lady wants a reference that is their perogative and if you object in the manner that pair are it suggests something to hide.
Anyway if she is relaxed after someone has vouched for you she will more than likely give you a better time.

[bigpaws]

You have completely missed the point as usual funtimes ............... and I just don't have the patience to explain it to you.

Paws

[piggi]

Er...

Live and let live

Give peace a chance

Pick your own strawberries

[claudia xox]

I notice that several escorts are looking for references from new punters before they will give them an appointment . How practicle is it to get a reference from an escort when you may only visit escorts every couple of months.Seems crazy to me when your only looking for a ride ,not a job interview.'

Kingneptune

hi. just read your tread. and i want to ask are you pulling the piss?? im an escort and ive never heard of that asking for an refrence!! i think it should be the other way round... most escorts talk among our selves as we are all linked... and belive me we know if some of you are weird our going to indanger any of us... i think thats the sillest thing ive heard.... i wont ask you for a ref. i'l ask you for a ref about me thats the way the circle works... thanks for the update... cheers claudia
p.s if any guys have beem with claudia in the ringsend area.. please do put up a review, regardless. word of mouth works

[mark1dub]

I have meet a few escorts who used the review system...and i have had no issues with it....i just say i have seen X Y or Z escort and they have my number stored as a genuine client... its really easy...a lot of the iie escorts use it....

The new escort whp i havent meet then just texts or calls the escorts i gave as a reference and comes back to me with a appointment time.

I also meet Alyssa and Lynne for a duo a while ago and was amazed ....a great pair.