References

[piggi]

I think the idea is that the escort calls the referee (an escort you have been with before) and gives your number to her -- a lot of girls save the 'phone numbers that punters use, rarely with a name but with a titile like "ok guy" or "nasty" or whatever. The referring escort checks the number against her phone's contact book and sees if she has seen you and if you were ok.

I agree that it is a bit over the top, and I personally have never been asked for a reference, but if I really wanted to see a particular girl I suppose I wouldn't mind.

As Patricia says, it is for each girl to choose how she operates.

[Doom]

I think the idea is that the escort calls the referee (an escort you have been with before) and gives your number to her -- a lot of girls save the 'phone numbers that punters use, rarely with a name but with a titile like "ok guy" or "nasty" or whatever. The referring escort checks the number against her phone's contact book and sees if she has seen you and if you were ok.

I agree that it is a bit over the top, and I personally have never been asked for a reference, but if I really wanted to see a particular girl I suppose I wouldn't mind.

As Patricia says, it is for each girl to choose how she operates.

Good for you man, but i think its a right joke. What good is a reference??? i can write my own up right now, speak very highly of myself & sign it, but i could really be a Serial killer like Richard Ramirez. How are they going to know if i did up my own??????????????????

Will they want to meet the person that wrote it up now

[KILLESTERMAN]

lol the customer is all ways right springs to mind!
Most escorts by the nature work do not want to self regulate they work when it suits and with regulars they choose while it is difficult emotionally and physical for them
2 b honest in my experience in Ireland their are more bad escorts its hard 2 believe this could b matched by bad clients because of this it is a stupid suggestion to have a reference we pay above the norm for a relative bad service when compare internationally.
The review and genuine photo (recent if possible) are the big deciding factor b 4 clients go 2 an escort so more emphases should be provided

[electra4u]

I used to tour Ireland on a regular basis, until the attacks on Escorts become a regular uccurence and press trying to film you and get you in situations, that as a professional you don't want really happening to you.
The result was I stopped to advertise my tours and sometimes I organise meeting with my regulars, and it is the only gentlemen that I will meet, I stay a couple of days... no fuss, no prank calls, no look and go, and be in constant edge because you don't know who is going to turn up to your door.
I always used hotels, and I always limited the number of people I see, as for me was the experience my client that counted, and I didn't want to attract unwanted attention.
I think clients do not really understand the full picture, of how many people waist our time, by not turning up, by just walking in a taking a good look of you and have not intention of paying the fee.
As a professional escorts we do offer a service yet plenty of men feel quite entitled to waste our time and moan costantly if the prize is not right!!
I feel is a good thig that escort decided to protect themself is some way, as it is a dangerous business ( more so that been a dentist, or a banker), where people can pose a clients, and beat you, rob you, and may be rape you.... and the police quite often rate us like second class citizen, and don't do much about it!!!
I am absolutely backing Alyssa and any one else that use the system, and if ever will consider to meet new people I will adopt the system.
If you have nothing to hyde I don't really see a problem....but some obviously do!
EB
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[bigpaws]

Well I definately have something to hide .............. the fact that I visit escorts!!!
Girlfriends tend to frown upon that kind of behaviour .............

Paws

[damron]

Oh Electra you are a mystery girl.I have not heard of the press showing an interest in an escort before.How lucky your clents are having you all to themselves.How does one get in to the inner circle.Tell us more about yourself.Cheers Damron

[diver]

This is an interesting thread which should be kept going. I have a difficulty with references. I like to find a girl that I get on with and stay with her. I find it more rewarding to develop a friendship with a girl rather than trying to see many different girls. The difficulty is that girls can get possessive which I find a total turn off. I get enough of that elsewhere.
I am faced with having to find a new girl now which I hate having to do on account of the number of horrors waiting out there- hence my fixation elsewhere with the review system. Anyway, a reference from my current girl is not going to happen and asking will only risk personal injury.
It is a phenomenon that I have found with escorts that you can talk about the wife with no bother but any reference to another escort or girlfriend will get a hostile reaction.???
I digress. The point, or rather query that I want to put forward is can this website be used as a reference? As I understand it my imput here could be traced back to this computer like with the perverts on the kiddie porn sites. Could this be used to give girls a level of comfort and protection?

[piggi]

What good is a reference??? i can write my own up right now, speak very highly of myself & sign it, but i could really be a Serial killer like Richard Ramirez. How are they going to know if i did up my own??????????????????

I agree that the idea is a bit over the top, and as I said, I've never been asked for this.

But I think you might be missing the point.

Nobody is talking about a written reference - the idea is that you tell the escort you want to visit the name of another escort that you have been with. Then she 'phones her and checks that you are a nice guy. Your identity is established by your 'phone number - which many of the girls save. That's all.

They don't want a note from your employer

[Doom]

I agree that the idea is a bit over the top, and as I said, I've never been asked for this.

But I think you might be missing the point.

Nobody is talking about a written reference - the idea is that you tell the escort you want to visit the name of another escort that you have been with. Then she 'phones her and checks that you are a nice guy. Your identity is established by your 'phone number - which many of the girls save. That's all.

They don't want a note from your employer

Still a fucking joke, I wouldnt say the escorts keep the numbers of every person that they see in their phone & remember them all, 10 or more people a day. People change their numbers all the time so what use is it. written or by phone it stupid.

Bad enough some people have there wives or girlfriends checking up on them, now you have escorts checkin up on you too hahahahaha.

[piggi]

Still a fucking joke, I wouldnt say the escorts keep the numbers of every person that they see in their phone & remember them all, 10 or more people a day. People change their numbers all the time so what use is it. written or by phone it stupid.

Bad enough some people have there wives or girlfriends checking up on them, now you have escorts checkin up on you too hahahahaha.

It's a bit much, I agree