This is an interesting thread which should be kept going. I have a difficulty with references. I like to find a girl that I get on with and stay with her. I find it more rewarding to develop a friendship with a girl rather than trying to see many different girls. The difficulty is that girls can get possessive which I find a total turn off. I get enough of that elsewhere.
I am faced with having to find a new girl now which I hate having to do on account of the number of horrors waiting out there- hence my fixation elsewhere with the review system. Anyway, a reference from my current girl is not going to happen and asking will only risk personal injury.
It is a phenomenon that I have found with escorts that you can talk about the wife with no bother but any reference to another escort or girlfriend will get a hostile reaction.???
I digress. The point, or rather query that I want to put forward is can this website be used as a reference? As I understand it my imput here could be traced back to this computer like with the perverts on the kiddie porn sites. Could this be used to give girls a level of comfort and protection?