Jealousy..

[Rachel Divine]

"Plain women are always jealous of their husbands. Beautiful women never are. They are always so occupied with being jealous of other women s husbands."

[Doozer]

An apt song methinks

[nick2010]

Jealousy is definely something that never belong to me.
I do believe everybody have what they deserve in life ... Some people work hard and then they get more, but I also believe everybody is capable to have everything they want if they chooice to work hard to get it.
Everybody has different opinions and values What can be very big and important to somebody can be of the very small value for me or vice verse. That's why I think jeaulosy is a wast of time, because sometimes if you wish to have what somebody has it probaly won't be the best for you.
I was reading what a brazilian writer Paulo Coelho wrote and I thought it was very good, he said that human being always follow the already and easy open roads that somebody opened before, even though it isnt the best way, the most of the times it would be the longest way but it is easy to just follow when of truth we should discover a better way ourselves and make our own history not following and wishing what somebody elses dreamed of or achived themselves.
If I see somebody that has something that I would like to have this person will be my inspiration to believe I can get myself too, but never the reason to be jeaulos of him/her.
I really think jeaulosy people are really sad and they focus to much on be angry and jeaulos of somebody else and they forget about make a better life for themselves.

[emmasweet]

Very few people can boast that they have never experienced jealousy.
In general, this sense we find it very difficult to dominate and control. It causes despair, depression, conflict and even manages to overshadow or destroy the most solid relationships.
To avoid the destruction of a promising relationship, is crucial to understand what jealousy is and what is its primary cause.
Jealousy is rooted in feelings of fear, our insecurities and complexes - the unknown and fear of change, fear of loss of control or power in a relationship, fear of failure or of loss, fear of being abandoned, fear not to be outdone by the partner expectations etc.. Jealousy is a reflection of our value to our own uncertainty, anxiety that grips us from thinking that we are not a good partner and our doubts about our desirability.
Behind jealousy there is an emotion that is more significant than the jealousy itself: an unfulfilled need, a fear hidden deep or complex.
Awareness of this fear and this is the key unmet needs that can lead to unmasking jealousy and resolve the problem.
Never try to deny that you are a jealous person. Try to fall at a bargain with this feeling, to understand where it originates. Just so you can do to heal or hold it under control.
Let's say you realize you're a jealous person. What can you do to avoid this problem, or rather how can you solve?
One of the biggest mistakes you can do is to try to hide or deny this feeling. Jealousy is often a signal of unfulfilled desires, and frustrations of trying to ignore if you do only worsen things.
When you feel jealous, I suggest you ask "Why do I feel insecure?". "What's missing to feel safe in this situation?", "What is the worst thing that could happen and how likely is it to happen?", "I think that is a person less attractive or interesting than other people? "," I doubt that other people might love me for who I am? "" I doubt that they can have a relationship as I wish I? ".
Once you know which is the core of discomfort, it is time to ask yourself if your fears have a basis in reality. If concludes
they have a real basis, try to talk to your partner about what you produce these fears. In this way, with a partner, can you manage to get rid of them and thus the feeling of jealousy.
A most difficult situation is different and if you're convinced that your fears have no basis in reality, but the feeling of insecurity persist (often in the sense that more about you than if you're involved in the relationship). Like I said, this situation is difficult, differs from person to person and can not provide universal solutions to solve them. It is important that the person in this situation to try to manage this feeling of jealousy himself, to understand its causes, to accept and make peace with him.
Do not forget!
Jealousy, insecurity, possessiveness, distrust is not proof of love. If you want a stable and harmonious relationship, try to understand because of these negative feelings and dominated them. The power to do this lies within each of you. You just have to discover. Otherwise, you risk them remove all their loved ones.

[warmcome]

an ex of mine would call me when she and her new partner were making love.
i would normally hang up, i wanted to go there and kick some butt.

[monster_monster]

an ex of mine would call me when she and her new partner were making love.
i would normally hang up, i wanted to go there and kick some butt.

did you retaliate by calling her when you and your partner were making love?

and by partner I mean hand and love I mean wanking

sorry

[warmcome]

did you retaliate by calling her when you and your partner were making love?

and by partner I mean hand and love I mean wanking

sorry

no, i didn't.

[ciara]

I attract the most jealous of men , always lol!!
It gets very irritating

[mellors]

I attract the most jealous of men , always lol!!
It gets very irritating

I;m jealous of the lads in Athlone or wherever if that counts

[Rachel Divine]

I attract the most jealous of men , always lol!!
It gets very irritating

U are a beautiful lady, Ciara...of course a man will want u for himself only!!!