Lovin our ladies ?

[Morpheus]

As with most professional relationships, Doctor/Patient, Employer/employee there are lines that should not be crossed, and I think relationships with escorts is one of those lines. I think i'ts just a plain bad idea.
Besides.......who would you be falling in love with? I am going to speculate here as I don't ask questions, but I assume some/most/all of the Women lead two lives, that of an escort and a private life - an alter-ego if you like. If this is in fact the case, it would be the company of alter-ego that most of us enjoy, an alter-ego that does not exist outside of the of the escort-client relationship.
Just my 2 cents - don't beat me up

Agree totally with you LuciferS. A really good escort learns to read a client and give him the image he wants. Thats what we the clients pay her for (whether it be a GFE, PSE roleplay, etc..).

And therefore the person a client falls in love with is often a mirage and not the real person behind the fantasy. I think as clients, we need to be very clear of this. As mentioned in my previous post - i think its unfair on the escort when if we do cross that emotional line. Even knowing all this its so easy to fall in love with the fantasy girl. We just have to keep pinching ourselves back to reality when we walk out the door.

And as mentioned by LuciferS - escorts have a right to their own private lives, which we the clients must never encroach upon.

[kelso]

i agree with all the above, however it does happen, it is possible, and yes sometimes the feelings are reciptrocated;
you need to be brutally honest with yourself and each other though - how often do you see her in a non client way? have you enjoyed each others company away from the client -girl scenario? do you visit this girl only?
it is possible but its def not easy, not for the faint hearted and only works out in extremely rare occasions, so i say be honest, see how it goes but be realistic also....and good luck!

[Bruno69]

I have. Started as a client, dated, went on hols, lived together. It wasn't without a lot of difficulties and ultimately we split up, but we are still friends and don't regret it.

I think sometimes clients see escorts as some exotic alien lifeform we are trying to communicate with and understand. But they are all someones daughter, sister, friend, mum sometimes , and can need love as much as the next person.

So, yes, respect the boundaries and don't express undying love unless you have a relationship separate to business, but if there are feelings there on both sides, there are ways of broaching it, no less awkward than with a girl you like in your office or whatever.

I'm sure some girls here have relationships but I'd say some think it might be impossible.

Well it's not impossible. If my experience is any measure of it, it won't be easy but if there is genuine love, it can be done.

[n73]

So if you were married with kids would you have taken the chance ?

[Lucy Chambers]

So if you were married with kids would you have taken the chance ?

I have said this before to someone, but you usually lose people how you find them. No woman would forget that you were a client once, and unfortunately that would never be different. Love is lovely but it has to start in a good place to last and an appointment with an escort probably isnt the best place to start.

Everyone feel free to tell me I am horrible

[n73]

I have said this before to someone, but you usually lose people how you find them. No woman would forget that you were a client once, and unfortunately that would never be different. Love is lovely but it has to start in a good place to last and an appointment with an escort probably isnt the best place to start.

Everyone feel free to tell me I am horrible

Ah Lucy, the most sensible person on here!!! I was only asking a question and wondering about the response, or was I ?????

[lucifersam]

I have said this before to someone, but you usually lose people how you find them. No woman would forget that you were a client once, and unfortunately that would never be different. Love is lovely but it has to start in a good place to last and an appointment with an escort probably isnt the best place to start.

Everyone feel free to tell me I am horrible

I think this could be a self fulfilling prophecy - Positivity is required in these scenarios, If it still fails....... well you can say you gave it every chance. That said, trust is everything in a relationship - without it there is nothing much solid

[BACMAN36]

Someone mentioned the film Pretty Woman. Read the other day that they had to re-shoot the ending. The original ending had Richard Gere throw Julia out of his house back into the streets.

That film wouldn't have become a chick flick fav.

[kelso]

So if you were married with kids would you have taken the chance ?

yikes man, no, def no. that would be a step too far 4 me; and most likely the girl in question would rightly wonder if the same might happen her

[mellors]

So if you were married with kids would you have taken the chance ?

Big jump,who knows ? It depends where the relationship is going. Would have to be definite that it was reciprico.l Personally I couldn't handle it I,m probably to much of a jealous type,to expect the escort to give up her job would be totally unreasonable, so not for me (chance would be a fine thing)