question for escort.

[Jasmin]

Explain this to me Alicia. I understand its a betrayal, but you work in the industry. I'm not trying to be controversial. I think any woman who finds her man cheating on her with an escort, would feel betrayed and not surpirsingly kick him out. And no reason why it should be any different for an escort. Its just that I find it hard to marry the two. ie. you working in the industry and yet at the same time feeling betrayed by another escort?

In the TV series of "Secret diary of a Call Girl" - Belle (the lead actrees and an escort) finds out that her boyfriend uses escorts . He knew from the start that she was an escort and yet didn't mind. When she finds out - she is devastated and proceeds to ruin his life!!!

I understand yet don't understand. Forgive me for being thick but could you kindly comment?

That episode in the Secret diary of a Call Girl shows exactly what happens many times. Some men see having a relationship with an escort a good chance to have an open relationship and the excuse is if she can have sex with other men, why couldn’t he have sex with other women but the difference is, an escort is working and it is not quite the same as a man browsing an website and choosing a woman that he feels attracted to.

I am not saying that there is a rule when having a relationship with someone you know work as escort because people are different and seek different things in life but I wouldn’t neither expect nor want any man to understand my job because I surely wouldn’t accept him playing around.

[mellors]

That episode in the Secret diary of a Call Girl shows exactly what happens many times. Some men see having a relationship with an escort a good chance to have an open relationship and the excuse is if she can have sex with other men, why couldn’t he have sex with other women but the difference is, an escort is working and it is not quite the same as a man browsing an website and choosing a woman that he feels attracted to.

I am not saying that there is a rule when having a relationship with someone you know work as escort because people are different and seek different things in life but I wouldn’t neither expect nor want any man to understand my job because I surely wouldn’t accept him playing around.

Sorry if i'm being stupid, I've sort of lost track of this thread. Are you saying you wouldn't want your boyfriend to know that you worked as an escort?

[dark-knight]

Basically most men need or want variety. Its not that your not doing it for us anymore but a change is nice. Its like when we buy a new car we love it for a while then were thinking about what we'll buy next then we change it. We get bored easy and need something new to play with. Thats my opinion probably because I haven't found true love yet.

[kelso]

Basically most men need or want variety. Its not that your not doing it for us anymore but a change is nice. Its like when we buy a new car we love it for a while then were thinking about what we'll buy next then we change it. We get bored easy and need something new to play with. Thats my opinion probably because I haven't found true love yet.

so do you think its same for girls?

[mellors]

Basically most men need or want variety. Its not that your not doing it for us anymore but a change is nice. Its like when we buy a new car we love it for a while then were thinking about what we'll buy next then we change it. We get bored easy and need something new to play with. Thats my opinion probably because I haven't found true love yet.

Yeah, you're probably right DK, that tends to change when your in a serious relationship, where trust is a major factor

[Jasmin]

Sorry if i'm being stupid, I've sort of lost track of this thread. Are you saying you wouldn't want your boyfriend to know that you worked as an escort?

That I worked?? do you mean, when I stop working as an escort and I meet someone, do you think I would tell him that I worked as an escort, met lovely men and had a great time?

When a man meets a girl in a bar or wherever and start a relationship, he doesnt know how many men she met before him and it is better not to talk about it, who wants to know? but if a girl tell a man that she worked as an escort, he will always have this in mind, and imagination can the a terrible thing.

I know girls that worked in this business, stopped, met someone, got married and live very happy and none of them have told their partners.I don't believe their stories would have happy ending if they had told about the escorting part.

[naughty_g5]

That episode in the Secret diary of a Call Girl shows exactly what happens many times. Some men see having a relationship with an escort a good chance to have an open relationship and the excuse is if she can have sex with other men, why couldn’t he have sex with other women but the difference is, an escort is working and it is not quite the same as a man browsing an website and choosing a woman that he feels attracted to.

I am not saying that there is a rule when having a relationship with someone you know work as escort because people are different and seek different things in life but I wouldn’t neither expect nor want any man to understand my job because I surely wouldn’t accept him playing around.

I will not pretend I understand your job or woman psyche. I also agree that guys are browsing websites, selecting lady they wanna have sex with and proceed with the act, where as for escorts, this is totally different ball game. But at end of the day, if she is allowed to have sex outside relationship, IMO, it is an open relationship. If couple decide to go exclusive, it should be for both guy and gal.

In an episode in sexcetra, they showed few couples where husbands were faithful and wives were porn stars and husbands were OK with this, so maybe this kind of relationships are possible, but I am too jealous to be able to accept some random guy kissing and fucking my girl.

[Jasmin]

I will not pretend I understand your job or woman psyche. I also agree that guys are browsing websites, selecting lady they wanna have sex with and proceed with the act, where as for escorts, this is totally different ball game. But at end of the day, if [B]she is allowed to have sex outside relationship, IMO, it is an open relationship. If couple decide to go exclusive, it should be for both guy and gal[/B].

In an episode in sexcetra, they showed few couples where husbands were faithful and wives were porn stars and husbands were OK with this, so maybe this kind of relationships are possible, but I am too jealous to be able to accept some random guy kissing and fucking my girl.

I know many men think this way but believe me, it is not how many escorts do. Why do you think it can be very complicated for escorts to have a relantionship.

I am not judging anyone but definitely it wouldnt work for me because I don't see my situation as an escort as "being allowed to have sex outside relantionship".
As for you not being able to accept some random guy kissing and fucking your girlfriend, I dont see anything wrong with that, neither would I

[mellors]

I know many men think this way but believe me, it is not how many escorts do. Why do you think it can be very complicated for escorts to have a relantionship.

I am not judging anyone but definitely it wouldnt work for me because I don't see my situation as an escort as "being allowed to have sex outside relantionship".
As for you not being able to accept some random guy kissing and fucking your girlfriend, I dont see anything wrong with that, neither would I

You've answered my question, I meant in the present not the past, I totally agree,past life is exactly that

[naughty_g5]

That I worked?? do you mean, when I stop working as an escort and I meet someone, do you think I would tell him that I worked as an escort, met lovely men and had a great time?

When a man meets a girl in a bar or wherever and start a relationship, he doesnt know how many men she met before him and it is better not to talk about it, who wants to know? but if a girl tell a man that she worked as an escort, he will always have this in mind, and imagination can the a terrible thing.

I know girls that worked in this business, stopped, met someone, got married and live very happy and none of them have told their partners.I don't believe their stories would have happy ending if they had told about the escorting part.

I agree, you don't have to rake up the past, but I believe if it is present, then there should be honesty in relationship.