question for escort.

[naughty_g5]

Hi.I don´t know but is like different if he fool me with an escort that with a normal girl.
Is a big difference.I'm thinking and thinking and what hurts more.
The problem is like that:if he go to visit an escort is because he don´t feel good with me in tha bed
and if he is with another girl who is not escort is because he don´t feel good with me like a woman.

I was in relationship once and I stopped visiting escorts and started again when my relationship ended. But I visit escorts for variety in life. One of the reasons I have never been to same lady twice. If your guy visits escorts, it does not necessarily have something to do with you.

Anyways, I would assume if you are in (or ever get into) relationship, mature thing would be he knows about your job and you guys discuss whats allowed and whats not before you get serious.

[Morpheus]

Hi.I don´t know but is like different if he fool me with an escort that with a normal girl.
Is a big difference.I'm thinking and thinking and what hurts more.
The problem is like that:if he go to visit an escort is because he don´t feel good with me in tha bed
and if he is with another girl who is not escort is because he don´t feel good with me like a woman.

Thanks Alicia. I never thought of it that way. (Obviously because I have a man's brain! And we will never fathom the female psyche). I guess cheating in any form is a betrayal, and it doesn't really matter why it hurts. Thanks again for you insightful reply.

[naughty_g5]

Explain this to me Alicia. I understand its a betrayal, but you work in the industry. I'm not trying to be controversial. I think any woman who finds her man cheating on her with an escort, would feel betrayed and not surpirsingly kick him out. And no reason why it should be any different for an escort. Its just that I find it hard to marry the two. ie. you working in the industry and yet at the same time feeling betrayed by another escort?

In the TV series of "Secret diary of a Call Girl" - Belle (the lead actrees and an escort) finds out that her boyfriend uses escorts . He knew from the start that she was an escort and yet didn't mind. When she finds out - she is devastated and proceeds to ruin his life!!!

I understand yet don't understand. Forgive me for being thick but could you kindly comment?

Not countering you, but the guy cheated on Hannah and not Belle, thats what she could not accept. But I agree with you, I remember reading in another thread when one escort here said that she would overlook if her guy sleeps with an escort, but she would leave him if its her friend and I tend to agree.

If a lady can sleep with numerous guys as her job but not have an affair, guy should be allowed to sleep with escorts as long as he doesnt have an affair.

I am not trying to degrade anyone here, just sharing my thoughts...

[aliciasexy]

Not countering you, but the guy cheated on Hannah and not Belle, thats what she could not accept. But I agree with you, I remember reading in another thread when one escort here said that she would overlook if her guy sleeps with an escort, but she would leave him if its her friend and I tend to agree.

If a lady can sleep with numerous guys as her job but not have an affair, guy should be allowed to sleep with escorts as long as he doesnt have an affair.

I am not trying to degrade anyone here, just sharing my thoughts...

sorry my dear but u use the word ¨sleep¨ like ¨fu*k¨?
because if he sleep with her is worse that if he just fu*k

First he pay her more LOL
Second he like her more,not just for spend 20 min,he want to feel her,to tuch her ,,etc

[Morpheus]

Not countering you, but the guy cheated on Hannah and not Belle, thats what she could not accept. But I agree with you, I remember reading in another thread when one escort here said that she would overlook if her guy sleeps with an escort, but she would leave him if its her friend and I tend to agree.

If a lady can sleep with numerous guys as her job but not have an affair, guy should be allowed to sleep with escorts as long as he doesnt have an affair.

I am not trying to degrade anyone here, just sharing my thoughts...

Well spotted Naughty. I see I've met another "Secret diary..." fan. Yeah I guess thats part of it. She was Hannah with Duncan (even though he knew about Belle). And I supposed she justified sleeping with other men because that was Belle.

To be honest its still a bit of a 'mind fuck'. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. So i guess the moral of the story is don't cheat in any form, or never get caught!

[Jasmin]

Explain this to me Alicia. I understand its a betrayal, but you work in the industry. I'm not trying to be controversial. I think any woman who finds her man cheating on her with an escort, would feel betrayed and not surpirsingly kick him out. And no reason why it should be any different for an escort. Its just that I find it hard to marry the two. ie. you working in the industry and yet at the same time feeling betrayed by another escort?

In the TV series of "Secret diary of a Call Girl" - Belle (the lead actrees and an escort) finds out that her boyfriend uses escorts . He knew from the start that she was an escort and yet didn't mind. When she finds out - she is devastated and proceeds to ruin his life!!!

I understand yet don't understand. Forgive me for being thick but could you kindly comment?

That episode in the Secret diary of a Call Girl shows exactly what happens many times. Some men see having a relationship with an escort a good chance to have an open relationship and the excuse is if she can have sex with other men, why couldn’t he have sex with other women but the difference is, an escort is working and it is not quite the same as a man browsing an website and choosing a woman that he feels attracted to.

I am not saying that there is a rule when having a relationship with someone you know work as escort because people are different and seek different things in life but I wouldn’t neither expect nor want any man to understand my job because I surely wouldn’t accept him playing around.

[mellors]

That episode in the Secret diary of a Call Girl shows exactly what happens many times. Some men see having a relationship with an escort a good chance to have an open relationship and the excuse is if she can have sex with other men, why couldn’t he have sex with other women but the difference is, an escort is working and it is not quite the same as a man browsing an website and choosing a woman that he feels attracted to.

I am not saying that there is a rule when having a relationship with someone you know work as escort because people are different and seek different things in life but I wouldn’t neither expect nor want any man to understand my job because I surely wouldn’t accept him playing around.

Sorry if i'm being stupid, I've sort of lost track of this thread. Are you saying you wouldn't want your boyfriend to know that you worked as an escort?

[dark-knight]

Basically most men need or want variety. Its not that your not doing it for us anymore but a change is nice. Its like when we buy a new car we love it for a while then were thinking about what we'll buy next then we change it. We get bored easy and need something new to play with. Thats my opinion probably because I haven't found true love yet.

[naughty_g5]

That episode in the Secret diary of a Call Girl shows exactly what happens many times. Some men see having a relationship with an escort a good chance to have an open relationship and the excuse is if she can have sex with other men, why couldn’t he have sex with other women but the difference is, an escort is working and it is not quite the same as a man browsing an website and choosing a woman that he feels attracted to.

I am not saying that there is a rule when having a relationship with someone you know work as escort because people are different and seek different things in life but I wouldn’t neither expect nor want any man to understand my job because I surely wouldn’t accept him playing around.

I will not pretend I understand your job or woman psyche. I also agree that guys are browsing websites, selecting lady they wanna have sex with and proceed with the act, where as for escorts, this is totally different ball game. But at end of the day, if she is allowed to have sex outside relationship, IMO, it is an open relationship. If couple decide to go exclusive, it should be for both guy and gal.

In an episode in sexcetra, they showed few couples where husbands were faithful and wives were porn stars and husbands were OK with this, so maybe this kind of relationships are possible, but I am too jealous to be able to accept some random guy kissing and fucking my girl.

[anitasizzle]

Ask him if he had a great time and be happy 4 him if he say he did.

I'd kick him to the curb; I don't do infidelity, but I don't google people's numbers either.