Rachel you are someone I would love to meet, just because of your posts.
How important is sex? The sad fact is that sex is quite immaterial.
For me, it is the feeling of being joined, coupled, being together and loving each other which creates the greatest satisfaction.
Question for the men.
If you remember the love of your life, what was the sex like?
Was it the sex or the experience of holding and looking after your loved one?
I remember a time in the distant past where i truly loved someone. She was gorgeous, a part-time model who had a fantastic body many men longed after. The problem of course was my low self-esteme.
I was young, good job with the usual trappings but at the time but I didn't go the extra distance to secure this lady.
So what happen? She married her photographer neighbour, and later divorced and remarried an artichect.
Do I regret this experience? Of course not, I thank God for the pleasure and experience this gave me.
I try to remember what it would have been like not to have experienced this lady in the first place.
The sad thing is, this lady popped into my place of business some 20 years later, and my heart still twisted!
True love of another never truly diminishes!!!!!