Originally Posted by
ciara
Hi everyone I was wondering if u send an escort a pm and she doesn't reply what goes through ur mind?
Do u just forget about it or think il pm her again another day or do u think cheeky bitch never replied ??
Just very curious as I would normally only ever reply if someone was making a booking and I was able to take it , and if I'd seen someone already i may chat them a bit after via pm!
But I find some ppl get offended if they see uv been online without replying! Which I don't get as this is a business an escorts personal life is elsewhere. We don't get paid to talk to strangers via pm !!
I fully appreciate that an escorts life is busy and its difficult to keep tabs on all forms of communication for appointments - phone, txt, PM , e-mail, etc...I suppose the more of a problem this is for a given escort -the more it shows how busy she is - which is a good thing huh?
I never expect a reply to a PM on the same day. I suspect many girls who make appointments by PM may only get to check it once a day (given all the other avenues of 'appointment making' that she has to check). However, I have to admit that I get a bit anxious if she hasn't replied after a couple of days. This is of course after I've failed to get her on the phone a couple of times already.
Its silly on my part as i fully know that there are countless good reasons why she may not have answered - too many PM's , on holiday, computer crash etc.... However, its that male insecurity thing that actually makes me feel like i've been turned down for a date! Not rational but true !
I must say I've generally had very good responses from PM's thus far (with the odd exception). In answer to your question - when I've tried calling a few times and have then left a PM message, which isn't answered - I'll stop trying. Anything more and I would assume the girl concerned could accuse me of harrassment.
Inspite of what you've said above Ciara, you've kindly answered a PM from me even when you weren't in Dublin. So thank you again (even though I'm no closer to seeing you until you visit Dublin again!)
"Don't be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours"