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    Quote Originally Posted by ciara View Post
    Hi everyone I was wondering if u send an escort a pm and she doesn't reply what goes through ur mind?

    Do u just forget about it or think il pm her again another day or do u think cheeky bitch never replied ??

    Just very curious as I would normally only ever reply if someone was making a booking and I was able to take it , and if I'd seen someone already i may chat them a bit after via pm!
    But I find some ppl get offended if they see uv been online without replying! Which I don't get as this is a business an escorts personal life is elsewhere. We don't get paid to talk to strangers via pm !!

    I fully appreciate that an escorts life is busy and its difficult to keep tabs on all forms of communication for appointments - phone, txt, PM , e-mail, etc...I suppose the more of a problem this is for a given escort -the more it shows how busy she is - which is a good thing huh?

    I never expect a reply to a PM on the same day. I suspect many girls who make appointments by PM may only get to check it once a day (given all the other avenues of 'appointment making' that she has to check). However, I have to admit that I get a bit anxious if she hasn't replied after a couple of days. This is of course after I've failed to get her on the phone a couple of times already.

    Its silly on my part as i fully know that there are countless good reasons why she may not have answered - too many PM's , on holiday, computer crash etc.... However, its that male insecurity thing that actually makes me feel like i've been turned down for a date! Not rational but true !

    I must say I've generally had very good responses from PM's thus far (with the odd exception). In answer to your question - when I've tried calling a few times and have then left a PM message, which isn't answered - I'll stop trying. Anything more and I would assume the girl concerned could accuse me of harrassment.

    Inspite of what you've said above Ciara, you've kindly answered a PM from me even when you weren't in Dublin. So thank you again (even though I'm no closer to seeing you until you visit Dublin again!)
    "Don't be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours"

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    Quote Originally Posted by ciara View Post
    Hi everyone I was wondering if u send an escort a pm and she doesn't reply what goes through ur mind?

    Do u just forget about it or think il pm her again another day or do u think cheeky bitch never replied ??

    Just very curious as I would normally only ever reply if someone was making a booking and I was able to take it , and if I'd seen someone already i may chat them a bit after via pm!
    But I find some ppl get offended if they see uv been online without replying! Which I don't get as this is a business an escorts personal life is elsewhere. We don't get paid to talk to strangers via pm !!
    I dont forget who i have pm and do wonder why no reply ... for me i start to think i did something wrong or that the person is just not friendly...
    but i also understand ladys are just busy and often get over run with mails text ect...

    i mean its nice to chat a little and for me i like to try get to know a lady a little bit before i visit... to blank guys and not reply could lose them as future clients

    so although you dont earn money from being friendly and replying to pm you may infact make a very good client in the future or lose him if he feels you dont like him/ignore his mail
    (unless its bad mails or something) but a hello/how are keeping ect isint bad...

    I will sometimes ask is everything ok as i wonder what i did to get no reply other times I give up and usually then dont ever get to meet the lady as i havent been able to chat a little

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    Some Pms deserve to be ignored. I actually perfer the pm system to the forum sometimes. There are drawbacks of course as it can be used in inappropriate ways. Also you never know if Pms are being relayed to others that laugh their socks off at the contents!

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    Quote Originally Posted by dannyboy10 View Post
    Some Pms deserve to be ignored. I actually perfer the pm system to the forum sometimes. There are drawbacks of course as it can be used in inappropriate ways. Also you never know if Pms are being relayed to others that laugh their socks off at the contents!
    well dont worry i reported that hope you and 2 face had a great laugh
    Some friend requests deserve to be ignored also
    Last edited by jacksparrow2010; 01-02-11 at 09:30.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jacksparrow2010 View Post
    well dont worry i reported that hope you and 2 face had a great laugh
    Now calm down.
    What are you talking about son?
    Who is two face?

    (Two face?? What are you six? )

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    Quote Originally Posted by dannyboy10 View Post
    Now calm down.
    What are you talking about son?
    Who is two face?

    (Two face?? What are you six? )

    you can play stupid all you want Danny
    we both know what im talking about....

    age? why do you ask? you seem to already know that... wonder how
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    Quote Originally Posted by jacksparrow2010 View Post
    you can play stupid all you want Danny
    we both know what im talking about....

    age? why do you ask? you seem to already know that... wonder how
    I am not playing stupid! (It is a normal state for me!)
    I have no idea what you are talking about!
    I actually do not think you are six, I simply made ref to the childish term 2 face! I have no idea what age you are, why would I care?
    Maybe you should go for a nap you seem cranky this morning?

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    I try not to use the PM system to contact ladies, as I always hate to think I was annoying her in some way.
    A couple of ladies have told me I could PM them at any time. I just don't feel comfortable in doing this, as I would hate to think the escort was thinking 'oh no, I've got another one here'.
    Sometimes we can overuse the PM system, so there's a fine line to be drawn.

    I must admit a PM is very useful in setting up an appointment whenever I can never get through by phone.
    If a lady didn't reply to my PM, I would just think she didn't like receiving messages so would not contact her again via this method.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dannyboy10 View Post
    I am not playing stupid! (It is a normal state for me!)
    I have no idea what you are talking about!
    I actually do not think you are six, I simply made ref to the childish term 2 face! I have no idea what age you are, why would I care?
    Maybe you should go for a nap you seem cranky this morning?
    Danny your very good at saying things to get to people but say it in a way that others dont get it... and 2 face/2 faced is used all the time you know someone with 2 faces!..

    but more people than you think see your game
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    Quote Originally Posted by jacksparrow2010 View Post
    Danny your very good at saying things to get to people but say it in a way that others dont get it... and 2 face/2 faced is used all the time you know someone with 2 faces!..

    but more people than you think see your game
    Jeez Jack go for that nap son.
    You seem to be getting very excited over something.
    The 2 face thing was like something you would hear on a playground is all.
    If you have an issue start a thread, I think we have taken advantage of this one enough.
    My game?????

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