women and porn

[Lucy Chambers]

I don't know about Lucy, but personally I would be worried about anyone who would obtain sexual gratification from any person, male or female who was hurt or harmed in any way.
If anyone really liked such pain inflicted on others I would suggest they seek help before its too late.

Mark, have you ever seen a dog that is so starved of attention it likes being kicked, as long as it is noticed?

Here is the human example. Take my advice, don't kick the dog. It brings you down to a level you dont want to be at.

[dr love]

I agree with you it does dehumanise it, much prefer the real thing, i actually find it boring.Dara O'brien joke - young couple go to doctors saying they can't concieve, Doc says well what are you doing, guy says well were shagging away until I'm ready to cum then I whip it out and cum on her tits...bom bom

It wasn't this doc honest .: doc

[Sam Spade]

I prefer to be honest about myself. I feel sorry for you if you manipulate your behaviour to maintain your "image". If it damages my image in some people's eyes well those people I don't really care for anyway. It's funny how the truth has a way of working itself out.

Personally I am happy in myself and the way I treat others.
Whenever I visit escorts I know how lucky I am.
I know I am paying for the privilege, but I know its a privilege and the pleasure I receive from these visits is unparalleled to anything else I can experience.
How do I treat my escorts?
As I would with anyone I love - with my heart and sole.
I don't care about "image", as no one knows me here.
What I do care about is showing my escort the love, care and attention as they would do from any lover.

If you cannot grasp that, then I am truly sorry for you.

My hope is that you find love and comport sometime in the future, preferably sooner than later.

My best wishes,
Mark

[Morpheus]

I absolutely hate porn. There is no single medium more responsible for the degradation of women and the sexual act. Do you really think there would be a call for facials etc without it. Unrealistic and highly damaging imho.

Appreciate your opinion as always Lucy.

However, there is a spectrum to porn, ranging from softcore(playboy style - solo girls stripping etc), to hardcore , to fetish , to outright sadistic.

I don't think its fair to taint the whole industry with the same brush. However, I do take your points above. But men and women do view porn differently.

I actually learned how to go down on a girl by watching lesbian porn (I know its lipstick lesbian fake stuff for us silly men) - but it certainly taught me a thing or two, watching how a girl would do it to a fellow woman. Afterall women know best how they want to be pleasured. So even from a female perspective there might be that tiniest of benefits to porn?

[nicegirlsarenice]

I don't want attention, I really do have that type of porn and like it. It's not for attention I do.

Lots of people have S&M porn and love it. Just like how lots of people like S&M in reality. There's nothing unusual or strange about this.

Are some people here really still in the fire and brimestone age of a person should and shouldn't view?

[nicegirlsarenice]

Appreciate your opinion as always Lucy.

However, there is a spectrum to porn, ranging from softcore(playboy style - solo girls stripping etc), to hardcore , to fetish , to outright sadistic.

I don't think its fair to taint the whole industry with the same brush. However, I do take your points above. But men and women do view porn differently.

I actually learned how to go down on a girl by watching lesbian porn (I know its lipstick lesbian fake stuff for us silly men) - but it certainly taught me a thing or two, watching how a girl would do it to a fellow woman. Afterall women know best how they want to be pleasured. So even from a female perspective there might be that tiniest of benefits to porn?

No, because it's unnatural to watch the perfectly natural process of people having sex and it's unnatural to watch people without clothes manufactured in a sweatshop... or something.

[Lucy Chambers]

Appreciate your opinion as always Lucy.

However, there is a spectrum to porn, ranging from softcore(playboy style - solo girls stripping etc), to hardcore , to fetish , to outright sadistic.

I don't think its fair to taint the whole industry with the same brush. However, I do take your points above. But men and women do view porn differently.

I actually learned how to go down on a girl by watching lesbian porn (I know its lipstick lesbian fake stuff for us silly men) - but it certainly taught me a thing or two, watching how a girl would do it to a fellow woman. Afterall women know best how they want to be pleasured. So even from a female perspective there might be that tiniest of benefits to porn?

I agree, in part. However since the start of the nineties when legislation cleared the way for hardcore porn, I have felt increasingly uneasy. It seems you can start with Debbie does Dallas and graduate to god knows what.

However, you are right that generalisations dont help.

[dannyboy10]

No, because it's unnatural to watch the perfectly natural process of people having sex and it's unnatural to watch people without clothes manufactured in a sweatshop... or something.

Maybe go watch a movie now NGAN!

[Lucy Chambers]

No, because it's unnatural to watch the perfectly natural process of people having sex and it's unnatural to watch people without clothes manufactured in a sweatshop... or something.

What is natural about whipping and beating women? Would you feel that way if it was your sister on the screen?

Oh, wait.....

[nicegirlsarenice]

Maybe go watch a movie now NGAN!

I'm watching Serial Mom on RTE one, I love this movie. It's a comedy slasher.

OH NO, MAYBE I'M GOING TO GO OUT AND KILL PEOPLE I MUST BE SICK!!!