Goodbye to Love

[vampirejackie]

it used to be so different... she'd arrive on the train I'd wait hardly able to breathe choked with the anticipation of her arrival as the train pulled in, she'd be one of the first out we rushed towards each other smiling holding each other tightly holding hands cuddling all the way to the hotel we couldnt wait to check in at reception get to the hotel room & literally tear each others clothes off.. this particular day the train pulled in she walked slowly towards me I knew something was wrong we talked in the nearby public park she told me she didn't love me anymore & was returning home on the train later that evening I never saw her again I couldnt believe it.. I decided to check into the Clarion Hotel on the edge of the Shannon there I was to check in to a room on the highest floor I could get I would end up in the Shannon no messing I did this a few times I'm glad I didn't jump thats what love can do to u...

The end of relationships can do this to you, but time heals, i know its a cliche, but it does. Many years ago i felt the same about a break up, but now i think back and cant beleive what thoughts went thru my head and im so glad i never went thru with those thoughts. Dont beat yourself up about it hun xx

[willyup]

I'm in my mid-forties, divorced 8 years ago, the wife walked out with our son and shacked up with the guy who used to live across the road!! Fcuker.

Anyway I had the same thoughts about not finding someone as you and had a years dry spell. I was miserable and despaired that I may never find anyone.
Then one day I had a eureka moment and just thought fcuk it, I'm letting these thoughts rule my life, just get out and enjoy yourself. What helped me was that I went out and tried something new every month be it mountain biking, archery or asking an escort for something new ;-)....
This all helped to alter my mindset and things have just got better and better since. There has been low points of course but everybody has them. The good far outweigh the bad.
It was when I stopped looking for a girlfriend that I actually found one!!

The last 7 years or so of my life since that eureka moment have been fantastic and full of adventure. I live it to the full to the best of my abilities.
It might not seem like it at the moment but everyone has moments like these, it will pass and that special woman in your life will appear before you one day when youre not looking.

Chin up and remember it's good to talk!!

[Notatwork]

I'm in my mid-forties, divorced 8 years ago, the wife walked out with our son and shacked up with the guy who used to live across the road!! Fcuker.

Anyway I had the same thoughts about not finding someone as you and had a years dry spell. I was miserable and despaired that I may never find anyone.
Then one day I had a eureka moment and just thought fcuk it, I'm letting these thoughts rule my life, just get out and enjoy yourself. What helped me was that I went out and tried something new every month be it mountain biking, archery or asking an escort for something new ;-)....
This all helped to alter my mindset and things have just got better and better since. There has been low points of course but everybody has them. The good far outweigh the bad.
It was when I stopped looking for a girlfriend that I actually found one!!

The last 7 years or so of my life since that eureka moment have been fantastic and full of adventure. I live it to the full to the best of my abilities.
It might not seem like it at the moment but everyone has moments like these, it will pass and that special woman in your life will appear before you one day when youre not looking.

Chin up and remember it's good to talk!!

Man that is the worst,the prick lived across the road from ya and he banging your old lady behind your back!
I would killed that prick stone dead!

[warmcome]

Man that is the worst,the prick lived across the road from ya and he banging your old lady behind your back!
I would killed that prick stone dead!

I think the wife was far more culpable.

[Notatwork]

I think the wife was far more culpable.

Its takes two to tango,you would love to kill her too i am sure but what can you,she the mother of your kid,also not one for beating up women.

[warmcome]

Its takes two to tango,you would love to kill her too i am sure but what can you,she the mother of your kid,also not one for beating up women.

I hope EP is reading just how messy life can get.